After careful observation, when a man can achieve the following 15 things, you can consider marrying him?
1. The most important thing for a man is to be strong. Those men who have failed once and complain about everything, feel sluggish, fall down, and cannot get up must not take it. A man should be able to give women a sense of security. If you find a husband who cannot take care of you, and often cries out about his misfortune in front of you, making you also bear the pain that he can actually save, it is a very failure.
2. Loyalty. I don't need to say much about this. I believe all women don't want their husbands to fall out of love.
3. Be dignified. You must not find a petty man, even if he loves you. But because of a small matter, you become jealous. Whether you are socializing with your boss on business or gathering with friends who have not been around for many years, a man who makes a big fuss or keeps a gloomy face for a long time after you return home is actually selfish.
Of course, he will say that he is jealous because he loves you, but don't forget, love someone and give them freedom. Sisters, don't be left at home disguised by men using various methods to do laundry and cooking as a housewife. It's not that housewives are not good, but as women in today's society, they need to have their own social circle, be independent and self-improvement, and never find men who cannot give themselves freedom.
4. Good physical health. It is not required that the man be so powerful and tall, but he must be physically healthy and healthy. A woman has some physical problems, which can be called flaccid. If a man is sick all day, what do you say?
5. Don't be obedient, baby. No one says filial piety is wrong. Filial men are very kind, but in everything between husband and wife, they seek the opinions of others and have no own opinions. They always say, "Mom said, Mom said..." This kind of good baby in front of a mother is definitely not acceptable. Remember, you are marrying a man, not that man's mother.
6. Love my house and love my dog. If a man truly loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits, your friends, your family... If he cannot tolerate certain flaws in your friends or family or is dissatisfied with the people around you, then as a smart woman, he should try to avoid meeting them as much as possible; If he is so demanding that you cut off contact with them, don't hesitate, dump him!
7. Having a stable income. Love is very important, but it should be built on the foundation of bread. It's not necessary to have a wealth, but life needs to be secure. The so-called 'poor couple mourning for everything' means that if a man cannot even pay for their child's milk powder and starts worrying about next month's housing payment at the beginning of this month, then you will only have to endure hardship with him.
8. Confidence. A man who exudes a confident aura can make women rely on him with peace of mind.
9. Appearance matching. He is not required to be handsome, but he should look so as not to cause public outrage. You can't stand tall and graceful as a beautiful woman. Find a short black chubby person by your side.
10. Careful and interesting. He may not remember the birthdays of your uncles, uncles, aunts and aunts, but you must remember your birthdays and wedding anniversary, which are very important in marriage. It's best to go out for romance and receive gifts.
11. No bad habits. You can smoke a little, drink a little, but not too much. You don't want to go back every day to face a drunken drunkard with a strong smoke odor emanating from your mouth, do you?
12. Strong social skills. It's not necessarily to be active enough to laugh at people or hold hands, nor does it require him to have some tough social skills, but he can't be shy. Going out for socializing together, he only knows to stand by and giggle, but can't find a topic to talk to your colleagues. A man who needs you to stand up for anything will make you look pale.
13. A manly demeanor. The masculinity mentioned here is not about masculinity, it is not advisable for men who do not do any typical household chores or stretch out their clothes and mouths to eat. Masculine spirit refers to the ability to stand up for you without hesitation and truly protect you when you are bullied outside. Just because of this, this man is worth considering entrusting for life.
14. Have a sense of responsibility. Men must have a sense of responsibility and dare to take responsibility for what they do, whether it is public or private. The kind of man who pushes on others whenever something happens is not only despicable but also shameful.
15. Have a peaceful heart. This world has become accustomed to measuring a person's value based on their success in their career. In fact, a person's value lies in whether their existence is important to others. Even if that person cannot achieve the same brilliant achievements in their career as others, their ordinary life is equally important to the people around them, which means they have value.
If a man cannot view his gains and losses with a peaceful heart, and is always cynical, blaming society for unfairness, and blaming life for injustice, then being with him can also affect your mentality, easily extreme, and cause huge psychological pressure on you, leading to an unhappy life.