Wandering with my wife on the way home, she answered the phone and asked me to go home first. She said that a friend was sick and had an infusion, and wanted to visit. At that time, the watch needle had already pointed to zero.
At this point, someone who can call their wife must have a special relationship with her. For this reason, I added: Who is sick? My wife said, 'You don't know me.'. In fact, I know all of my wife's friends.
Watching my wife hurriedly take a taxi and disappear before my eyes, I felt inexplicable sadness in my heart.
After returning home, I lay alone in a double bed, waiting for my wife to return. An hour has passed, and there is no news from my wife. I called and my phone was turned off. That night, my wife stayed up all night.
In the dark, I felt that my wife had betrayed me. I followed her and found out that she was very close to a handsome young man. After inquiring from the side, I found out that the unemployed man was a pure white face who was taken care of by his wife.
My wife and I are family friends. Growing up in a family with a business, we are destined to stifle our own preferences and inherit the family business. In fact, our marriage was already arranged by both parents.
My wife and I can't talk about deep love, but I feel like our relationship is okay. Just running for their own careers and depriving them of the opportunity to gather frequently.
This kind of respectful marital relationship is actually quite good, at least it avoids some unnecessary arguments. But unexpectedly, our marriage went wrong.
In the years since we got married, for the first time, I have carefully examined our marriage and sat down with my wife to chat. My wife told me that she is a strong woman, but after all, she is a woman and needs her husband's company. But my wife called me several times when she was upset, and I was busy. Gradually, she got used to living alone.
Until one day, due to high pressure, she sat alone in the park contemplating, watching a pair of lovers holding hands and laughing as they passed by in front of her. Her real idea at the time was that she didn't care about social status, nor did she care about employees calling her CEO. She only wants to have the love that an ordinary woman should have.
Later on, every time my wife was feeling depressed, she would go to the park to sit down and put down the CEO's airs, and socialize with people of different ages. In this situation, she met the little white face she is currently taking care of. Although the man is a bit lazy, he has a sweet mouth and can make his wife happy.
There was no physical contact between them, or rather his wife was more obsessed with the pleasure of being accompanied by him, and he was also shocked by his wife's extravagant spending. However, the man still doesn't know the true identity of his wife.
That man is like a grinding curse, making his wife want to be with him whenever she has time.
My wife said she never thought about getting divorced, but with her current marital status, she can't guarantee how long she can keep her body clean.
How can we change the marital status quo?
Reply:
Your prominent position is what many people dream of, and only you know that you are actually poor and only have money left. The high self-esteem and fierce competition in the same industry have kidnapped your pursuit of the minimum happiness in marriage.
Perhaps you have also experienced loneliness in your busy time, and in a flash, you may be distracted by trivial work matters. For this reason, you have neglected the marriage itself. And your wife, as a woman, cannot escape the fate of emotional animals. For this, she was the first to lose her tension.
Loneliness is very terrifying. It can destroy a person's will and also make them willing to sink.
As far as your wife is concerned, she is still a relatively rational woman, and her 'nurturing' little white face is currently only a companion relationship at best. She spends money wasting his time, taking what he needs.
As your wife said, she cannot guarantee that such a marriage will continue. Can she still have better self-control. At least, on the night of the man's infusion, your wife risked being suspected by you and also had to accompany the man, indicating her need and desire for someone to accompany her. If she does not accompany the man when he is sick, the result will be that the man is angry. Because she knows that once that man gets angry, it will definitely affect her work mood.
In the current situation, your wife has a lot of time to accompany the man, and the signal given is that she is willing to sacrifice her work time for emotions. So, what you need to consider now is: can you also sacrifice work time for emotions?
Only by squeezing out time to treat marriage well can marriage embark on a normal trajectory. For married men and women, career cannot be the only focus, marriage also requires time and dedication.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)