Being with different people can lead to a different state of life. Love someone who is not tired of getting along with you, so that you can live your true self.
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Remembering a sentence I saw on Weibo: "Some people like the way you tie your hair, while others like the way you wrap your hair, so you hesitate to tie it or wrap it, but you overlook the fact that the person who truly likes you likes all the way you look
A person who truly likes you will not judge your attire casually, will not impose their own preferences on you, and will not completely ignore whether you are tired or not just because you look good in high heels;
And for a good relationship, you don't have to deliberately find topics, you don't have to easily change yourself to cater to his preferences, even if the two are silent, you don't feel awkward. In front of him, you can be yourself as you please.
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In recent days, I have received a series of good news from my friends that they have taken off their orders, which has really made me, a single dog, eat a handful of dog food. And being pursued also made me deeply realize the importance of a relationship that is not tiring to get along with.
My friend Qingzi met a boy at a friend's party, and they added WeChat. They also had a lot of common language and had a good impression of each other. After a period of contact, the boy took the initiative to bring Qingzi to meet his friend. Qingzi asked me what he meant by this? My answer should be a further meaning, because only when you like, do you want to introduce yourself to friends around you, and only when you want to become the person around you, do you want to make a relationship public.
Qingzi was very moved. She said, 'There are many people who chat with her, and he is the first one who wants to introduce himself to people around him.'.
Presumably, girls are like this. They say they don't care about the ceremony, but in fact, they are very attentive to your every move. A seemingly ordinary sense of ceremony is already overwhelming in their hearts at the moment they hear it.
In the following days, Qingzi was constantly struggling whether to accept or not, after all, he had never voluntarily expressed his feelings and did not end up being just wishful thinking. Until the day of Valentine's Day, when a boy stood in front of her holding a large bouquet of flowers and chocolates and affectionately confessed, Qingzi's heart was melted and she agreed to try dating.
Qingzi talks to me every day about their progress. She talks about his warmth and thoughtfulness, saying that every time she gets along, her heart can't help but take a step closer to him. It's very comfortable to be with him, and you can be yourself as you please, without worrying about not responding to what you say, worrying about what kind of state you should be in front of him, or considering what to say or not to say. Get along very casually. I can feel her happiness overflowing through the screen.
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I couldn't help but think of a brief relationship I had before. Every time I made an appointment, I had to change into my favorite clothes. He said he liked girls wearing high heels, so even though he didn't know how to wear high heels, he was as happy as a cucumber. When we are together, we desperately search for topics, but we never get together. Therefore, most of the time we play on our own phones, and the time we spend together feels infinitely prolonged, hoping to quickly end the embarrassment of each appointment. So it lasted for over a month, and the relationship could no longer continue.
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I am becoming increasingly aware of the importance of a relationship that is not tiring to get along with. In this relationship, there is no need to struggle too hard, no need to search for topics desperately, no need to worry about whether he will suggest sporadic acne on my face, no need to easily change my habit of wearing short hair because of his phrase "a girl who likes long hair", no need to pretend to be reserved, you can laugh and be reckless.
Even if you don't want to talk occasionally, don't worry about snubbing the other person, and don't feel awkward doing your own things. Because each other firmly believes that the other person is the one they want, because you know that no matter how you are, they will like.
Many people ask what kind of person to find to fall in love with, and I think it's better to find someone who doesn't get tired of getting along with. Being with him is like family, free and comfortable.