When was your first experience? A survey shows that having a first sexual encounter too early or too late may affect future marriages.
Best time for first sexual activity
This study targeted 1500 American teenagers and tracked their romantic experiences and future marital status from the ages of 15 to 30. The results showed that people who had sexual experience before the age of 18 and those who had their first time after the age of 30 may experience more marital problems in the future, such as being prone to infidelity and not being able to handle marital relationships. People who have their first sexual encounter around the age of 23 can better handle marital issues and have smooth communication with their partners.
Researchers believe that premature sexual experience and physical and mental immaturity may lead to incorrect emotional beliefs and affect marriage. Having sexual experience too late means having less contact with the opposite sex and being prone to communication problems.
Couples should not have sex too early
I haven't known him for a long time, but I feel good. Shouldn't I agree to his sexual demands? This is a challenge that many women may face. In response, the latest article in the Huffington Post in the United States pointed out that sexual intercourse between men and women should not be too early. Otherwise, it may be the opposite. Gender experts have proposed five reasons for impatience.
1. Blindly and clumsily engaging in sexual behavior. The first time having sex can lead to a faster heartbeat, excessive excitement, and clumsy and rough movements. If both parties become more familiar and have more love for each other, the feeling of clumsiness will soon disappear, and the natural love between men and women will make sexual intercourse more comfortable.
2. Waiting is the best foreplay. Perfect sex should have sufficient foreplay, dating without sexual intercourse, which can keep both parties interested and full of anticipation for the arrival of sex. At the same time, patiently 'waiting' is also a manifestation of 'emotional appeal'.
3. Avoid one night stands. Having sexual intercourse upon first meeting can bring about a feeling of one night stand for the parties involved, which not only leads to regret but also can easily cause psychological impact. Men may think that women are reckless and lose confidence in long-term development.
4. Mature timing, confident and relaxed. When dating, one can grasp the scale and wait until the time is ripe before engaging in sexual intercourse. This can make both parties more confident, avoid being careful to guess the other's thoughts, and the quality of sexual intercourse will also be higher.
5. Having sex too early affects judgment. Blindly and prematurely engaging in sexual relations can easily deceive the parties involved and prevent them from objectively and reasonably viewing everything that occurs. After passion, one may find that both parties have almost no common language and must eventually break up.