The ancients emphasized the caressing techniques of foreplay to stimulate sexual desire

The sexual excitement between men and women is often out of sync. Generally speaking, male sexual impulses often appear quickly due to visual cues; The woman is relatively slow, but more sensitive to tactile stimuli. Of course, the opposite situation can also occur, where the woman has sexual demands while the man does not. Therefore, all of the above situations require a playful and flirting stage.

In the "Secret of the Jade Chamber", there was a profound explanation of this: when a couple is married, if the female partner is not happy to act due to lack of sexual desire, the genitalia will not be moved and will not open, and the vaginal fluid will not overflow and lubricate; If the male partner does not have sexual demands, it is not very hard. These all hinder the smooth progress.

Before, couples should first sense and stimulate each other's desires. If a man cannot feel towards the other person, the woman is unhappy and unresponsive; If a woman cannot move the other person, then the man's penis will not erect and will not take the initiative. In such a situation of unrequited love, if a couple cannot coordinate and harmonize, their energy cannot be transmitted to each other, and they are in a hurry to interact and act rudely, it is more likely to cause opposition from the other party, making it difficult to achieve good things. If two people have the same desire and desire before sexual intercourse, and both have sexual demands, the relaxation and contraction of the genitalia at this time can stimulate the male penis, making it stronger and larger; In turn, it promotes the overflow and lubrication of vaginal fluid, resulting in sexual satisfaction for both parties.