The Chinese magazine published an article by male columnist Steven? Dorti's article discusses the eight most important "firsts" in a man's life and explains how these experiences influence his attitudes towards relationships and marriage. The reporter also interviewed some American citizens and found that everyone agreed that understanding these important moments can help promote gender relations.
1. First Kiss
Steven stated that the "first kiss" in male memory does not specifically refer to the first kiss, but rather the most beautiful kiss, which determines future emotional development. Steven was deeply infatuated with an Irish girl until he realized after his first kiss that she and he didn't call each other. The passionate kiss with his second girlfriend Susanna activated all his sensory cells. Later, Susanna became his wife, and that thrilling feeling persisted for 40 years.
2. First trip
Some people say that if a man and a woman cannot travel happily together, they cannot become a couple; If a couple is unhappy while traveling, their relationship will not last long. It can be seen how important the feeling of traveling is for love and marriage. Steven also believes that whether traveling long or short distances, or even simply dining out, can reveal the flaws in both parties' personalities. A lawyer told a reporter from Life Times that travel is the best way to get to know each other, and his wife is the woman who met and had the most pleasant time together during a trip.
3. The first time I said 'I love you'
This sentence should come from the bottom of my heart, it is a milestone in emotional life, indicating that "this relationship really is that kind of thing. But saying 'I love you' too early may seem hasty; Saying too much can also make the other person annoyed, so both men and women should cherish the opportunity to show their love.
4. Give her the wardrobe for the first time
Before getting married, Americans often cohabit for a period of time to determine whether their personalities are compatible. Steven believes that when a man asks his girlfriend to put clothes in his wardrobe, it is an important implication: I am serious about this relationship. Because in the eyes of men, a neat wardrobe represents a sense of purpose.
5. Being a father for the first time
There is no more exciting moment in a man's life than being a father for the first time, and many men even cry for joy. In the interview, all men stated that life is perfect only when they become fathers. The moment I see a child, I realize the value of life
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)