Post Date April, 15 2023
Not every boy is very active, but there are still many boys who hesitate in front of the girl they want. In fact, being too shy is not acceptable. So how can we overcome this shyness? Next, the editor offers you some tips to pick up your confidence, show your courage, and talk to the person you love.
Are you shy?
When you brag to others about your story of hooking up with girls, you may feel like the coolest person in the world. But are you really someone who preaches that? Are you bluffing? Or maybe you're a shy boy.
Now compare the following symptoms to see if you are a shy boy.
Is a lonely person
If you enjoy being alone and dealing with your own affairs, it is likely that you are somewhat withdrawn and shy.
Too friendly to people
After being rejected countless times, some boys become ruthless towards girls, while others are on the contrary, being extremely friendly towards girls. Finally, because you are too friendly, all you can get is a gentle kiss on her cheek, because in the end, you become her "intimate".
Don't be silly, you're just a bystander in a group of women and won't bring you any benefits.
If you were this shy type of boy, what would you do?
1. Force yourself to meet girls
For a cowardly person, it is difficult to take the first step to meet a girl and get her phone number. If you plan to stay at home and watch TV on Saturday night, if you want to watch it again, you can invite your friends to a bar and find a chance to meet girls.
2. Developing the other side of personality
Everyone has two sides, so why not show another good aspect of you? It's not that you need to use a false personality to convince others that you are another person, but rather to improve your potential personality.
No matter what you do, be honest and don't fool others, otherwise others will fool you too.
3. Approach women who don't make you feel afraid
The best way to avoid nervousness and anxiety is not to care about the outcome of things, especially when you approach the woman who attracts you and want to start chatting with her.
"You don't care what she will say to you, so you can act as if nothing had happened, and that can arouse her interest in you.".
4. Optimism and self-confidence
You have to overcome your shyness from the bottom of your heart. Firmly believe that you are the man women like, exuding optimism and self-confidence from the inside out. If you think you're not good enough, women will feel the same way as you do.
5. Maintain eye contact
Eye contact is a sign of your confidence. Many men are also electrocuted by a woman's gaze. If she stares at you and flirts with you, you can walk over and accept her invitation. In a woman's eyes, you can read a lot.
6. Take a friend to a bar
You'll feel more comfortable chatting with women with friends in a bar. Because you know that no matter what happens, you have friends to support you. In addition, he can also help you with your tactics.
The next time you encounter a beautiful woman and don't know how to approach her, just remember that the hardest thing is to walk over and talk to her. As long as we take this step, everything else will be easier to say.
As long as you overcome your shyness, other things will be much simpler. In previous articles, we have also introduced many ways to pick up girls for reference.
Next time you meet the person you love, will you pick up a conversation? Don't be afraid, just think about being able to speak to her, take this step bravely, and you'll be halfway there. As long as you overcome your shyness and strike up a conversation bravely, the next thing will be much simpler. Take courage, and you will not be far from your goddess.
(Intern Editor: Liu Feifei)
