Post Date April, 15 2023
I have been married for almost ten years, and the year before last, I discovered that my husband had an affair, which has led to countless arguments between us. I don't know why, my husband has changed his past and seems to have returned to him many years ago. He comes home on time every day, and if there is anything, he must first call me to explain it. I asked my husband why, and he said he made a mistake before. He hoped I would forgive him and he hoped to live a good life with me. Everything came too suddenly, and I don't know if the happiness I have now is true or false. Did my cheating husband really go home? How should I continue living?
Ms. Chen:
One thing for sure is that your husband's affair has ended, regardless of the reason. At present, you feel 'happy' and worry that such happiness is too sudden and unrealistic. Did the cheating husband really go home? The answer is clearly: yes. How should you continue living? This is a crucial question.
Firstly, observe for a period of time to see if he has truly achieved a change of heart and if there are any sequelae that need to be addressed. Secondly, reflect on the problems that exist between you, fill the gaps, and no longer allow others to have the opportunity to intervene in your life. Thirdly, strengthen communication and exchange, and work together to manage life. Fourthly, you need to constantly improve yourself and make yourself more worthy of being loved by a man.
