Sexual happiness does not require gender equality, and couples know the secrets of sexual life

Now is the era of pursuing gender equality. It is said that the sexual physiological response of women, like that of men, roughly consists of four stages: excitement, arousal, orgasm, and termination. Orgasm is a systemic reaction and activity caused by extreme excitement in the central nervous system, including muscle tension throughout the body, rhythmic contraction of vaginal muscles, involuntary tension of the pelvic muscles, and a heart rate of up to 180 beats per minute. The systolic and diastolic pressures increase by 20-50 millimeters of mercury, resulting in sweating throughout the body. In the moment of obtaining high pleasure, it's like being thrown into a room and feeling a cloud like ecstasy, it's really great.

Since sexual physiological reactions are the same for both men and women, some people believe that it is not appropriate for women to always be "passive" throughout the entire process of sexual activity. In order to achieve harmony and perfection in sexual life, "gender equality" should be advocated. In fact, this view is a biased formalism and does not conform to the characteristics of male and female reproductive organs. Therefore, unilaterally pursuing gender equality in sexual life may not necessarily achieve satisfactory results. The reasons are as follows:

A male centered sexual approach can easily stimulate sexual interest between two individuals

As is well known, male muscles are tough, and the reproductive organs are characterized by strong attacks. If men lose this characteristic, the sexual process cannot be completed. In contrast, women have soft muscles, loose reproductive organs, and are easy to accommodate. Psychologically speaking, men have a rough, competitive, and aggressive personality; Women, on the other hand, are more delicate, tolerant, and able to endure adversity. From these characteristics, men should also be on the offensive, while women should be on the defensive. In the sexual life of couples, men attacking women is a commonly adopted way of sexual intercourse, and in addition to being influenced by traditional culture, its physiological and psychological factors cannot be ignored.

The satisfaction of sexual life lies in how to play the role of a husband

Since men play a leading role in sexual activity, the role of the husband is related to whether the two can achieve orgasm, provided that the wife can happily accept each other and cooperate well. At this point, the level of sexual knowledge and cultivation of the husband will affect the entire process of sexual life. For example, if the wife's sexual arousal stage has not yet arrived, the husband should be patient and know that sex is not only about marriage, but also the fusion of spirit and flesh. At the beginning, the husband can use hugs, kisses, caresses, touches, and gentle words to stimulate the woman's sexual desire and passion, rather than violent movements to drive the woman to a higher level of sexual excitement.

Everyone knows that men's sexual behavior is more positive, positive, and aggressive than women's. The sexual life of many young people is often as fierce as starving tigers. However, after reaching orgasm, it feels like a deflated ball, feeling tired and tired, and wanting to sleep. However, women's excitement comes slowly and also slowly. After two people reach orgasm at the same time, the wife needs a relatively slow time for the sexual excitement to disappear and the husband's love. When the wife is still excited, the husband goes to sleep without a word of warmth, snores, and the wife is not satisfied. Not only does she have a sense of physical disharmony, but she is also prone to psychological disharmony, which can easily lead to sexual coldness and confrontation in the wife for a long time. So, when two people achieve sexual satisfaction at the same time, do not immediately fall asleep. Instead, embrace each other and say sweet words. This not only promotes mutual care and consideration between couples, promotes mutual trust and happiness, but also helps with physical and mental health, regulating physiological and psychological functions to the best state.

The active participation of women can better stimulate male sexual excitement

A harmonious sexual life between spouses is not only a means for human reproduction, but also an important part of promoting marital relationships and creating a harmonious and happy life, which is of great benefit to both spouses. But to achieve tacit understanding and harmony in sexual life, it is necessary to have both the initiative of the husband and the cooperation of the wife, because sexual life is something that couples can only complete through cooperation. Both men and women have the responsibility and obligation to become the protagonists of sexual activity, both having the right to enjoy sexual pleasure and allowing the other party to enjoy it. Therefore, women must change their traditional passive mindset of simply accepting and not listening to everything from their husbands. Think about it. How can a wife who is completely in a passive state experience the joy of sex? Therefore, the best attitude is for men to actively attack while women should actively cooperate and participate.

Once there is an expectation of sexual desire, one should actively send sexual signals to the male partner. Expressing it in direct language, although it is straightforward, in real life, many wives prefer to indirectly send out sexual signals, such as wearing thin and translucent pajamas, shyly answering questions about lying in bed, or placing the room in a warm place to make the light soft and full of the room's fragrance, no less than the scene of the wedding candlelight in the beginning... The highest level of sexual life is the combination of spirit and flesh, and the wife's enthusiasm Happy mood and positive actions

On the other hand, for women, it is passive in form, but its functional role is not related to priority. One is that when a man is proactive but lacks mental health (such as sexual weakness or even impotence), a woman's timely initiative can trigger and stimulate the man's sexual desire. From her care and consideration for her husband, she can make him feel the charm of his wife, thereby deepening the relationship between husband and wife, and easily driving the two to reach orgasm at the same time. The second is that when the woman encounters an unpleasant situation or is unable to recover due to physical discomfort, she can naturally explain to her husband the reason why she cannot have sex, in order to gain the other party's understanding and stimulate their love. Doing so will have a certain positive effect on the future sexual life between couples becoming more harmonious and fulfilling.

Originally, men and women had different physiological structures and reactions. Sexual intercourse should value harmony and mutual enjoyment. If we talk about gender equality, it's just that. As long as men and women can enjoy sex, it is called equality!

The Secret of "Growing Love" between Couples

The first move: tapping into overlooked sexual opportunities

Your time is often occupied by work, children, and entertainment, which seems insufficient. However, sex experts point out. The lack of uninterrupted non sleep time for couples to go to bed together may be a part of the problem, mainly due to the insufficient utilization of their time.

Program 1: If you can use it for 10 minutes, you can have sex immediately. know of

Being in a hurry, but having sex quickly is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, many couples greatly appreciate the excitement brought by fast sex and can also create two secret feelings, especially before relatives and friends come for dinner.

Program 2: When the night falls, take out your diary and notebook and note that you will engage in long-term sexual activity this week. Maintain a certain level every week.

Second move: Improve touch techniques

After several years of marriage, regularly touching a lover is more effective in consolidating their relationship than having sex regularly. Experts say that it's not just love, many couples rarely touch each other with love. They may feel uncoordinated about this Improve touch techniques. It is the elimination of all obstacles to achieving good sexual outcomes.

Program 1: Seize opportunities. Develop the habit of touching the other person, such as holding their hand while watching a movie. When watching TV together, gently sweep your upper arms up and down with your fingers. Irregular kissing.

Program 2: Make him hug you. Many men say they like to actively touch their wives. Although the other party has come into contact with themselves, they continue to convey the message not to approach me. If the deep kiss in the morning turns lipstick into a flower, bear it. Compared to feeling uncomfortable when you don't want to have contact with your husband, re dressing is obviously rare.

Third move: Learn to speak your will

Many men behave like ascetics in bed. Try to cover every inch of your skin with sincere power to please you. If you want him to stay somewhere. He must be given some instructions.

Step 1: Decide on a sensitive area that you would like your husband to spend more time on, and then say something like, "I really like your way of touching." or "Don't stop." If you feel ashamed of suddenly saying such words, it's best to continue a few times until you feel natural. If you are disgusted with those words, you can express your will by moaning

Procedure 2: When the husband meets your requirements, he must be informed. If he makes a mistake, keep a meaningful silence.

Fourth move: Expand sexual space

If the bed is the only place for you two to have sex, you may miss out on the high sexual pleasure of having sex elsewhere at home.

Program - Starting from the kitchen, you can consider utilizing all the delicious food in the cabinets and snow boxes, which may lead you to an unprecedented level.

Procedure 2: Repeat in each room and feel the scent of sex on the rocking chair in the bedroom.

You can enter a deeper realm of sexual intercourse.

Fifth move: Don't miss the moment that has passed

Many people are excited at home, but on the way to sleep, they are always distracted by many things and soon cannot pick themselves up.

Experts point out that if you want to enjoy more and better sex, when you are aroused, you should take immediate action.

Step -: When you feel high sexual desire, don't be distracted and pay attention to other things. Concentrate. Don't let the excitement run away.

Program 2: Do everything possible to choose a place in your family and start working immediately.