Sexual Enlightenment Disorders Affect Children's Lifetime; Children's Sexual Education Should Not Hate Early

Children start to realize the differences between male and female genitalia from the age of 3 to 4, and develop curiosity about the genitalia of adults and other children. If not guided properly, sexual play can occur. After entering adolescence and having a vague understanding of sex, due to this phenomenon of self blame, it can affect the normal development of sexual psychology and sometimes cause sexual abnormalities. According to statistics, this kind of little guessing rarely develops into a normal marriage. So, parents should not play sexual jokes with their children casually. The normal development of sexual psychology affects a person's life. Many adults have sexual psychological disorders, and sexual abnormalities begin in childhood and are the result of sexual psychological developmental disorders in infancy and young children. Therefore, we should pay attention to the development of sexual psychology in infants and young children. The parents are the ones who have the closest contact with children since childhood. It is important to protect their childlike innocence and not be injured due to their negligence.

It can be said that the influence of parental bisexuality plays an important role in the gender development of children. Research has shown that children's gender awareness has become a fixed trend before the age of 4, and it is difficult to change children's gender awareness after the age of 4. Throughout a child's life, influenced by the intuitive images provided by their primary parents, boys are born to enjoy their father's powerful arms and a loud bell like voice, while girls envy their mother's warm embrace and feminine charm. If the father is a typical male and the mother is a standard female, providing the child with typical male and female information, the boy will strive to learn male behavior, and the girl will learn. Female behavior.

But if the child lives in a hen pecked family, and the father is a cold and passive man, he shows his role in front of his wife that she despises, or the mother has the characteristics of masculinization, and the family is full of ups and downs, which will disturb the establishment of children's identity with idols. For example, in the process of a boy learning from his father, the mother is very violent and often scolds her husband, making the child deeply feel the father's humiliation and fear of the mother, making him afraid of women.

Psychologists investigate the lack of fatherly love in families, including single parent parenting, seafarer families, and families with long-term separation between father and son, where children have developmental problems. There are many symptoms among them, such as timidity, susceptibility to shock, irritability, crying, sadness, inactivity, and mental depression. Some scholars refer to fatherly love deficiency syndrome as the father's influence is minimal. Lack of fatherly love. The influence of boys will be more significant, and when boys realize the gender difference between men and women, they already start imitating their fathers! He always regards his father as an admirer, and his every move and love for his mother all affect whether a boy grows into a man. How fathers treat their families can even determine how their children will treat life in the future. For a girl, fatherly love is not only more important than maternal love, but also the father almost represents the entire opposite sex. Her attitude towards her father may affect her attitude towards the opposite sex and affect her life. Imagine that if the father drags his tired body and low mood every day to work, and when he arrives at home, he curses his own work, scolds, and is unwilling to receive wages, as if he has no responsibility to his family. What do children think of such a father's image, and what do they think of it?