Sex is not just a combination of two bodies. In addition to rich skills, sexual patterns also emphasize diversity. Couples have been living together for many years, and sex has become a task. However, the fact is the fact. First of all, we must acknowledge it. Then, we should face the reality, in order to improve the quality of life for couples and wives, add joy to sex, and inject new vitality into sex.
How to get rid of mundane sexual life?
1. Create a warm sexual nest
Sexual intercourse should be romantic, which requires a certain atmosphere. There should be candlelight, flowers, wine, and all gentle and romantic things in sexual intercourse. Arrange an environment for couples to have sex and increase the romantic atmosphere of sexual activity. Buy sexy lingerie and strive to coordinate the sound, light, and tone of the bedroom with the sexual atmosphere.
2. Strengthen sexy communication
To enhance sexiness, sufficient stimulation must be given to the sensitive area in order to be effective. Every man and woman's sexual sensitivity zone is different, so don't stop expressing your sexuality because of shyness or other factors. You can use language and gestures to tell your partner what you like or where to touch sensitive areas that stimulate you.
3. Enjoy the joy of sexual intercourse
When having sex, relax the brain and body, and pay attention to the pleasure experience brought by sexual activity. When necessary, movies, music and sex description books should be supplemented. At the same time, some sexual fantasy, sex games, etc. should be properly coordinated to make your spouse excited and excited, which in turn can strengthen your own sense of sexiness.
4. Overcoming temporary sexual dysfunction
Men with sexual problems, such as insufficient penile erection and difficulty ejaculating, then temporarily stop having sex and give themselves an ample vacation. Gradually becoming closely related in the common life of a husband and wife, and can engage in sexual activity in the form of vagina, such as masturbation, gradually transitioning to enjoy the pressure free penis erection that the other party brings to oneself, achieving the instant pleasure of orgasm and ejaculation. Because this method does not require a penis erection, it greatly alleviates male tension and anxiety, and reduces the pressure of sexual behavior. Practice the above methods more until both parties feel completely relaxed and have enough confidence to have sexual intercourse again.
5. Men also need to learn to say no
The man may make sexual demands, or it may be a woman. When the other party makes sexual demands, the other party feels out of state, and even using drugs with certain therapeutic effects, it is difficult to reach a high level. At this time, it is necessary to learn to say no politely to avoid being hit by the other party. Common situations include: marital illness, excessive work pressure, physical fatigue, hunger or alcoholism, depression, poor environment, and disharmonious marital relationships.