Sexual education is a major event in adolescence, and sexual psychological guidance is very important

Adolescence is different from childhood and adulthood. The biggest characteristic of this period is the mature development of sexual organs and rapid changes in body and mind. Zhang Shengyuan, a renowned adolescent psychological counseling expert in China, believes that sex education is the core of adolescent education and the top priority of adolescence.

For children who have just entered puberty, the most important psychological characteristics during this period are self-awareness awakening and sexual awareness awakening. Children who enter this period may have sexual problems to some extent, so this period is also the most necessary period for sexual education in their lives.

Sex education is not only about knowledge education, but also the ultimate goal of personality education and sex education. It is not about giving children a lot of sex knowledge, but about helping them learn correct sexual attitudes and behaviors.

Sex is an important component of personality, and only by solving sexual problems well can teenagers acquire a good personality.

Regarding the methods of sex education, do not focus on indoctrination, communicate equally, try not to stand on the position of educators, and do empty and abstract preaching to distinguish friendship and love. Timely understand and discover the problems of teenagers in heterosexual interactions, and let them think, discuss, and solve them themselves

For young people, nothing is more harmful than stolen knowledge. When nature itself begins to awaken teenagers' interest in sexual issues, a rational and pure understanding of the secrets of nature is the only way to save them from harmful pornography.

Therefore, sex education is not passive prevention education, but active and open education. We must carry out sex education before the physical development of children, sexual psychological education before the germination of children's sexual consciousness, and Sexual ethics education before the development of children's sexual behavior.

Sexual education requires sexual psychological guidance

For young girls and adolescents, the focus of sex education is limited to sexual safety education, but there is insufficient contraception and an understanding of sexual psychology is needed. If you don't understand their sexual psychology, sex education is like talking nonsense.

A conversation between a mother and daughter reflects to some extent the sexual psychology of post-90s teenagers

Mother said: Is there any pregnancy or abortion among female students in the class?

My daughter said, 'There are several students who have their own reasons for getting pregnant.'.

The daughter explained to her mother that the first type of pregnant women use pregnancy to hold their favorite boy in their hands and want to use sexual means to strengthen their romantic relationship. The second type is the body's involuntary involvement in the love network and fear after pregnancy. The third type of girl's idea is quite realistic, with the aim of enjoying the present and taking on the responsibility of pregnancy. Upon hearing this sentence, the mother was surprised and said, "Are these children not afraid of pregnancy or abortion?