Post Date April, 15 2023
I don't know whether this is right or not. In short, I only know that I hate her and hate her.
Three years ago, she destroyed my beautiful family with her charming beauty, let my husband follow her in disgrace, and let my 4-year-old child and I live together. At that time, I tried my best to persuade her to give her a sum of money. I just hope she won't pester us any more. She said that he loved my husband's people, not his money, and said that he would fight with me to the end. It turned out later that she had a little white face outside. She didn't love my husband at all, but just lost all his money. But the heartless man couldn't listen to me at all, and was fascinated by that woman.
I really hate people who destroy others' families, especially after others destroy my family, so I retaliated against her. To tell the truth, my beauty is no worse than that of the third child, and even better. It's just that the dead man is used to it, and will find other women when he is tired of aesthetics. I thought it would take a lot of work to get rid of that little white face, but I didn't expect that men are all the same, holding the bowl and thinking about the pot. It's funny that the dead man gave the money to Xiao San, and Xiao San gave the money to the little white face, and finally ran into my pocket. It turns out that women are so stupid, but men are so flirtatious. So when my revenge plan was realized, I was not happy at all. I even felt a little pity for the third girl. It turned out that she was also an infatuated woman. I don't know if I am a bad woman, and I don't know what to do next. Teacher, if it is you, what will you do?
Expert reply:
I think you have been filled with anger and hatred, so you can do such a thing. In fact, you should also understand that you have entered a sick state. This is a very serious morbid psychology. You are full of thinking that this can cause the same harm to the person who hurt you, but you forget that you hurt not only that person, but also the person she loves, the person who has nothing to do with her, and yourself. Complaining with resentment will never have any good results. Why do you sacrifice yourself to do something unhappy? You can neither save your lost family nor make you happy.
In fact, you are stupid. That woman is wrong, but your ex-husband is not wrong? You leave your ex-husband, which is not entirely sad, because even if he does not leave you now, he will leave you because of another woman. It is better to let you leave and wake up earlier than that. Some suffering is not necessarily sorrow, but also relief. However, you have now plunged yourself into another kind of suffering that is difficult to extricate, or you still feel guilty. Have you ever thought about your own way out? Some people are so sad that when they can start a new life, they are not willing to start a new life. Instead, they are willing to devote themselves to another life that cannot be called life. You should be sober.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
