Two years ago, I made a mistake on an impulse, and my husband has ignored me ever since. He is a vindictive man who hardly sleeps with me after my mistakes. I have asked him for forgiveness many times and promised never to do anything wrong to him again. He looked disdainful and ignored me. Being with him is torture.
"It's really unbearable loneliness, so I took the initiative to call my former boyfriend and confide in him.". My ex boyfriend sympathized with me and even advised me to divorce, saying he would take care of my life in the future. After that, we often went out for tea and dinner, and our relationship grew closer. He keeps pushing me for a divorce, and I don't know what to do. Excuse me, do I have any hopes for my marriage?
Ms. Zhou:
"You made a deviant mistake two years ago, and after that, you repeatedly asked your husband for forgiveness, promising never to repeat it.". I believe that you are a woman with a conscience. Although your rehabilitation has not been tolerated by your husband, you insist on using patience and time to change your relationship with him.
It's not advisable for you to socialize with your ex boyfriend now to avoid complicating things. "Your ex boyfriend obviously has ulterior motives for you and takes advantage of someone's danger to step in. You should be vigilant against making mistakes again.".
As for whether your husband can ultimately forgive you and save your marriage, the answer lies with you. "If you want to maintain your marriage, you should no longer have an obsession with any man other than your husband. Instead, you should use actions to influence your husband and never listen to the slander of your ex boyfriend.".