Post Date April, 15 2023
Jin Yong's "The Deer Tripod" has made Wei Xiaobao deeply rooted in the hearts of the general public, making men jealous and women unable to hate. Wei Xiaobao himself is not outstanding. He is a scoundrel, has poor martial arts, and is full of lies. However, he is a bit smarter than ordinary gangsters. It is also his skill to be able to comfortably coax each of the seven women.
Skills that most men don't have. The mortals with fish lips can only say that dealing with one woman is enough for me to get burned out. Another woman, son, take me away. However, now there is a man in Ningbo who marries two wives, both of whom are happy and sweet at the wedding. Not long ago, it was reported that India's men were the real version of "Wei Xiaobao", but I have to say that compared to him, they were simply too weak to exist.
"Neither tall, rich, handsome, nor outstanding, but able to coax several women around. This Ningbo man is the real version of" Wei Xiaobao "(it turns out to be fake, and Wei Xiaobao cannot be copied). So how did" Wei Xiaobao "come into being?"?
First of all, he has to understand a woman's heart.
Men come from Mars and women come from Venus. There are many misunderstandings between people from two different planets, which is why most mortals shout, "Son, take me away, women are indeed difficult to raise.". In fact, a woman is very easy to coax, just like a Persian cat, she can give you a sharp claw and smooth your hair. "Wei Xiaobao" people know how to smooth the hair of Persian cats and coax women into falling in love with them. Even if several women share a husband, they will tolerate it for the sake of love. Don't understand women's hearts? "Wei Xiaobao" people tell you that women are easy to understand, as long as you can make her feel that she is the only one. When dealing with her, beauty is in the eyes of the lover, and even if she cannot, she pretends to be so, making her feel valued and reassured. You may want to ask how many women feel that they are the only ones. That's the skill of "Wei Xiaobao". I have a shallow line of ethics, and I can't say it.
Secondly, he needs to have a masculine image.
Men may not be tall, but they cannot help making women feel insecure. As long as a man can make a woman feel safe, she will accept him from her heart. This is why heroes save beauty, and beautiful women quickly fall in love with them. In the desperate situation, a small figure in front of us is as strong as a rock to protect ourselves. How can we not let the silent heart of our daughter's family beat? A woman's heart is like a floating duckweed, always searching for a harbor that can shelter her from the wind and rain. This is why women want to get married after losing their virginity. Only marriage can bring a woman a sense of security. The man in Ningbo is strong and solid. Perhaps he extended a helping hand when the two women were in a desperate situation? Joking, the two women turned out to be hired to celebrate. However, only men who can give people a sense of security can have women willing to marry. Women are emotional animals and take emotion as their priority. Only men and men can make women proud and proud.
Finally, he needs to be charismatic.
"He may not have a poetic and scholarly atmosphere in his belly, may not be handsome, not necessarily a gentleman without cast hands, not necessarily tall, wealthy, and handsome, but he must have a charismatic personality, perhaps a sense of loyalty, perhaps a strong sense of responsibility, perhaps generous, perhaps straightforward.". Wei Xiaobao is greedy for money and lustful, but he is very loyal to his friends and a bit clever. He has many shortcomings and many advantages. It is just such an ordinary person with his unique personality charm that people cannot help being close to him and trusting him. The unique personality charm can make people deeply immersed in it, making people involuntarily follow and trust.
