Post Date April, 15 2023
In the sixth month of marriage, my husband went to other places to earn money. Except for the Spring Festival and the National Day, I went home twice a year. I was no different from not married. I have complained, but the 'salary' of more than 100000 yuan sent back by my husband intermittently every year still convinced me that he was working, and he often said that when the garage and some savings were available, he would return to his hometown, run a small shop with me, and lead a simple life.
I have insisted on this for three years. All my friends who married later than me have become his mother of children. I began to worry about this, and my parents in law also worried about it. My husband gave up his "job" in other places under the constant phone calls from me and my parents in law.
Now, it is less than two months since my husband came back from other places, but a woman who is more than ten years older than me came to me. I learned that my husband was not doing a decent job in the past few years, but was taken care of by two rich women at the same time.
The husband's figure is really charming, and he is a rare beautiful man. The key is that the husband is not a beautiful little white face, and he speaks and does things very manly. If I had worried about my husband looking for a lover outside these years, I never thought that his husband would become a soft man.
It can be seen that the woman is deeply in love with her husband. She cried and begged her husband in my house that as long as she did not leave her, she would give him endless wealth and wealth. She also said that another rich woman thought the same.
My husband hesitated in the choice between me and the woman. If it wasn't for my mother-in-law to drive the woman away with a broom, I really doubt that my husband would elope with the woman.
Although my husband finally chose to stay in his hometown, I can feel that his husband is distracted all day.
I thought that I could exchange my husband's devotion and love for his tenderness and virtue from now on, but I couldn't be good to him, and I blamed him all day long. It seems that only when I sarcastic about him can I feel more comfortable.
For three years, I have been widowed and lived with my husband's cold hundreds of thousands of tickets. Is this the marriage I want? The more I think about it, the more angry I become. Recently, the mentality of wanting to divorce has gradually gained the upper hand.
Reply:
1、 Everyone has laziness. If you can make a lot of money by laziness, no one is willing to work as a coolie.
2、 Many men with objective appearance but shallow knowledge have tried to be a cowherd in the nightclub, and many people have tried to be a cowherd, but they all know that it is a disgraceful thing. For this reason, a large number of people finally gave up the idea of being a cowherd, but some people are willing to go all out and finally make money by their looks.
3、 In modern times, the consumption of male sex is no longer a strange thing. If you choose to be adopted as a single man, you may pretend not to see it, but he is your husband now. As a wife, after you learned that in the past three years, your most loved one is crawling in the bed of two other women. In addition to anger, you must also have antibodies to your husband's body, and have endured three years of loneliness, How can we have psychological balance?
4、 As a man who used to make money by selling sex, once he lost his high income, he would be unhappy. So your husband's current mental depression is purely a cut of income, not a yearning for that woman. Otherwise, even if your father-in-law's pressure, he would be duty-bound to follow that woman.
5、 It seems that you love your husband very much, and you are not an extravagant man who wants to succeed in his career. Now, marriage is basically on the track you want. Why not try to break in and forget the past. If you are still disappointed in marriage and your husband's character in the process of breaking in, it is not too late to divorce again.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
