Sexual Health
My husband seems to have someone outside. He says he doesn't need me anymore and wants to divorce
I was born in a family with only one child. I have developed the habit of independence since childhood. It's hard to change what you decide. You have developed a princess's temper, and you can't listen to anyone. Only my husband, I am willing to listen to him and share the pain and happiness with him. When I took my husband home, even my parents thought it incredible that I was a little bird. Dad thought that I was always proud, how could I be impressed by a boy. Maybe this is the power of love. There is no difference between high and low and distance.
After parents learned about her husband's family situation, they didn't agree to our marriage. My bad temper came up, and my relatives refused to recognize me, and I clamoured to get married. The parents were soft hearted and agreed to us. Considering that we need to buy a house when we get married, my parents took out the down payment, and his parents took out the balance payment. The money in the middle was advanced by my husband and me. My father was afraid that I would be wronged when I went out to work, so he paid me to set up a small company. I grew up lazy and playful. My husband handles all the affairs in the company. Sometimes, my husband will complain a few times when he sees me doing nothing, but these have not affected our feelings.
The newly established company needs customer resources. My husband's relatives know some friends on the road and introduce them to us. One of them is a woman who is also a little rich woman. After we make friends several times, we become friends and often eat and chat together. She has also become a family. The four of us often get together to play cards, eat and watch movies. The company has been operating for two years and has made some money. My husband wants to change industries. He told me that the woman we know has a source of goods. He wants to make more money and let me live a good life. The company wants to give it to me. He works with the woman.
I didn't want to agree much. After several years of practice, I still have a good grasp of the business, although my husband is not as meticulous in the company. It should be no problem to manage by one person. After all, the company is not big. They worked together for half a year before I realized something was wrong. In the first ten days of April this year, my husband kept leaving home for business trips. For some time, my mother-in-law was ill, and our relatives kept urging us to go home to take care of her. I gradually became impatient and contacted my husband to let him come back as soon as possible.
My husband is a filial son. I don't care how I treat him. Being so indifferent to his mother also touches his bottom line. After his mother got well, I dragged a lot of nutrients back to visit. When I arrived home, I found the woman beside my mother-in-law, two people holding hands. It was very easy to talk. I looked like an outsider. I didn't know what to do with the awkward atmosphere. Fortunately, my mother-in-law rounded the stage and let me sit down for a rest. Later, my husband asked me for a divorce, on the grounds that I didn't need a wife like me. I thought he was joking and didn't take it seriously. The next day I put the divorce agreement in front of me, and I knew it was serious.
I apologized to him and his mother-in-law for not taking care of his mother in time. It was my fault. But I am also busy for work. My mother-in-law easily forgave me, and my husband didn't put a good face on me. Later, when I heard that the woman was divorced, my heart pounded. My husband travels frequently. The woman goes with her husband to see her mother-in-law. I suspect there is something wrong between them. My husband refused to admit it when he died. My friends said that they must have an affair, and some people advised me to divorce. But I really want to save it. I don't know what my husband thinks, but divorce is really beyond my consideration. What should I do?
Reply from the consultant:
Hello. Analyze it. You are the only child in your family. You grew up in a honey pot, and the princess's temper was formed. You can't feel your husband's feelings for his mother. A man dotes on you and habituates you, but you don't take his mother as your family. When she needs people most, you become tired. This behavior directly touches your husband's bottom line. Even a woman who works with him can go back with him to visit the old man, let alone you, a married couple? In the cold, he would propose a divorce to a large extent.
Both of you are working hard to manage your own business, and marriage will inevitably enter a fatigue period. If you still love your husband, it is not recommended that you investigate his affair. If you want to learn how to communicate with him, the husband and wife should work together to do a good job and have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. Adjust your mind, improve your ability, calm down and manage your marriage well. Even if he has an affair and realizes your sincerity, he will come back to live with you. come on.