My husband and mistress are fooling around, and I can't even threaten him if I drink pesticides and commit suicide

My husband had an affair, and I only learned about it at the end of July. In June, I got pregnant and he advised me to miscarry. We only have a ten year old daughter, and when I found out, I brought his father along. His father advised me, but it was of no use. I scolded my husband and argued with him, but he didn't respond. I even drank medicine and had my stomach washed. I pulled out the call records of the mistress, who had a monthly bill of several hundred yuan, I called the woman and she initially refused to answer. Later, Xiao San's phone was constantly down, and I also sent many messages cursing Xiao San and proposing a divorce. My husband actually agreed, but I don't want to leave. What should I do? Do I need to leave? My husband never apologized to me.

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Hello, when a man cheats and a woman uses the technique of crying, making trouble, and hanging herself, it really doesn't work. How foolish should you be to drink pesticides and commit suicide? What if you poison yourself, wouldn't it not help this stinky man and mistress? So, as a woman, don't be too impulsive in situations, and don't punish yourself with the mistakes of others. I understand that you are making such a fuss, but you just want to show your husband how much you care about him in your heart, and let him know that you can't stand the betrayal of your emotions! But is it useful? Your husband is completely indifferent, and even if you sacrifice your own life for it, there may not be any change. This is enough to demonstrate that your husband is genuinely interested in that mistress, especially since your actions have made him more determined. He has chosen to side with the mistress, and the fact has proven that your entire struggle is futile, even negative. Your actions undoubtedly helped the mistress, and you have not gained much from yourself. The only gain may be even more disturbing and disappointed. So, if you don't want to divorce your husband, don't do it. You need to calm down and examine yourself, sort yourself out. When you realize your gaps and improve your physical and mental abilities, your competitiveness is strong enough to completely surpass the junior, and the junior will gradually be ignored by your husband. Hating Xiao San is useless, nor is it useful to scold or fight with Xiao San. The most useful thing is to cultivate yourself, make yourself excellent, and defeat all opponents and enemies, including your husband. Of course, if your husband is determined to have sex with a mistress and applauds the divorce, you don't need to linger or flatter. Follow someone shamelessly and always try something. If you hold onto this man and only want him to give you a superficial marriage and a virtual home, then I don't think it's really worth it.