Post Date April, 15 2023
If you don't receive the blessings of both elders, even if you get married, you won't be happy, right?
Answer: Yes, it's difficult. Elders see the future ahead of you. Moreover, if the conflict between the two families is intense, it will not affect you now and will cast a shadow into your hearts in the future. However, when the family opposes it, it is a manifestation of being indecisive and boasting to their partner. Some conflicts are misunderstandings caused by poor communication and can be resolved through mediation. Happiness cannot be obtained through rebellion, but one must also strive for it.
What should a boyfriend do if he has a good impression of his close friend?
Answer: If it's unilateral, stay away from your boyfriend; If it's both ways, stay away from your boyfriend and best friend. Love is a conversation between two people, so you should be careful not to always pick up your best friend or mention her in front of your boyfriend.
3. Angered her wife, she said: A piece of paper crumpled and flattened, but still cannot be restored to its original state. What can I do to make her change her mind?
Answer: I leaned over and gave her a big kiss, "We are living beings. If you don't believe me, you can rub my husband. No matter how you rub it, it will still be the same. I promise not to cry out for pain! Even if I rub it green, I won't cry out for pain!" amused her and made her laugh. Act well and never do anything that angered her before.
My boyfriend is a successful man, and I am ten years younger than him. He said he loves me, but he's very busy. How can I get along with him?
Answer: To be a good mistress or mistress, one must endure loneliness, have a keen eye, and be available when a man needs it. When he doesn't need it, he should not disturb or actively contact others. Do you think you are his legitimate girlfriend, not his mistress or mistress? But he has a legal wife. If you don't believe it, find him to make trouble, and your relationship will almost come to an end. A man of this age who spends money to buy the cleverness, beauty, and vitality of a young girl, packaging this consumption behavior with so-called love. If it weren't for the kind of life he can provide you with, how would you choose him?
My husband said that his favorite thing is money. He is lazy and doesn't care about others, but he and the women outside are very good at saying things about him. I said he was not good to me and he said giving me his favorite thing was good to me. How can I say that?
Answer: If he leaves all the money in your hands, this man loves you. Men who don't love you are very stingy towards you, and they are definitely not willing to spend an extra penny on you. As for laziness and a bit of a slick tone when dealing with women, it's all due to his personality. Do you think a few words of concern mean he cares more about the women outside than about you? You ask the woman outside to make him mop the floor and wash the dishes, and he won't hesitate.
6. Should I tell my boyfriend that I had miscarriage before?
Answer: Before you say it, you need to consider it. Can the other party accept it when you confess this matter to them? Will it still treat you like before after knowing it? As long as you don't have a definite answer to these two questions, that matter shouldn't be said. But this is limited to one's own past experiences, and some shared experiences between two individuals cannot be concealed. Now that I have told you, it's okay. You don't have any burden in your heart anymore. It depends on whether he can digest this fact and treat you as usual.
7. I am a simple boy. I met a girl who loves each other very much, but after a period of contact, I found out that she has been married, has children, and has not yet divorced. What should I do?
Answer: There are also women who play with emotions. She won't divorce, it's best for you to leave her and forget about this experience. Don't talk to anyone else.
8. My husband and I have never had a relationship, but when I mentioned divorce, he threatened my family. What should I do?
Answer: The reason why a threat is established is due to the fear of the threatened party. You are worried that he will harm your family, but what they are worried about is that he will harm you. Learn to resort to the law. This society is not indifferent, and you are willing to escape its control. There are many people willing to help you. Remind family members to be careful and ask powerful men in the family to come forward and protect them. Go to court to sue for divorce, stay in their own home during the litigation period, avoid contact with them, and do not give them the opportunity to harm their family and themselves.
Six years ago, we divorced because my husband and my best girlfriend had an affair. We remarried again for the sake of our children, and I learned the truth that men are unreliable, relying on mountains and water to dry up. Self strengthening and self-reliance, with little assets to date. After an inexplicable argument, I was brutally beaten and found out that he had been dating another woman for many years. I seemed numb, neither sad nor distressed. My daughter couldn't go to find that woman in anger, but she came back with scars and injuries from the woman's beating. My husband came to tell me that he doesn't want a divorce, so this matter is over. Let's change it and live a good life. I have a deep affection for him, but... what should I do with such shameless and irresponsible men?
Answer: numbness is a mechanism for emotional self-protection. Although you are no longer in pain for him, if you want to leave him, that deep reluctance and attachment will appear. Tell your daughter that adult emotions are left to adults to handle, and you should also take care to avoid complaining in front of the child. No matter how he is, he is also your daughter's father. Since he continues to live, please help him maintain his father's image. His irresponsibility is not an overnight matter. There is no solution to this problem, but you have money and ability, and he is not willing to leave you. On the daughter's side, you need to pay more attention to her psychological changes. The next time she tries to defend you against injustice, this child will completely distrust men and love.
10. I know what I'm saying. You may think I'm ruining someone else's family, but the truth is not true. At first, I refused, and multiple times, but he really meant to be with me with my heart. I can't refuse, what should I do?
Answer: A person sincerely hands you a knife and asks you to poke it into another person's heart, telling you that he is genuinely good to you and thinking for your own sake. Would you accept it? Would you agree to do this? Don't take the invisible knife from a married man just because you're not firm enough.
