A man's life, as a son, as a husband, as a father, while enjoying the happiness of his parents' love, his wife's tenderness, and the joy of his children, also shoulders the responsibility of being a son, as a husband, and as a father. The responsibility lies with him, and the responsibility is significant. If he cannot do it well, it will affect family life and regret for life. Therefore, being a man is not easy!
As a son, the key is to be filial to parents and support the elderly. Parents give us life, raise us as adults, provide us with food and clothing, read books, help us start a family, get married, and have children. The kindness of parents is greater than heaven, and we spend our entire lives, but it is difficult to repay them. For thousands of years in China, filial piety has been passed down, and the Twenty Four Filial Piety Picture is a touching story that has been passed down to this day. It is incumbent on parents who are old and sickly to take care of the elderly. However, in today's society, with high work pressure and family planning, it is not easy for most families to have only one child or one daughter to do a good job of supporting the elderly. Although it is not easy, it must be done and done well, which is the responsibility of the Son of Man.
As a husband, the focus is on caring for the wife's life and investing in her emotions. Ten years of cultivation leads to crossing the same boat, and a hundred years of cultivation leads to sleeping together. A woman who marries you and gives birth to a child for you is a blessing from a previous life. Cherishing one's marriage and loving one's wife is both a responsibility and a sense of responsibility. Your wife is the most important companion in your life. The success or failure of a man's career is particularly related to the support of his wife. The so-called military merit badge has half of mine and half of yours, and without his wife silently dedicating to you behind, how can you achieve the glory in front of you? Your wife accompanies you from youth to middle age to old age, holding the hand of your son and growing old together. Only your wife can live with you and spend the rest of your life together.
Being a father is the hardest part. In addition to working hard to earn money, raise children, and do your best to provide the best food, clothing, and education for your children, you are also a role model for your children. Your words, actions, and actions directly affect your descendants. The saying goes that example is more important than precept, and it is all subtly influenced.
Being a father is not easy, but becoming a competent and good father is even more difficult. Firstly, you need to be a good son and husband, and use your actions to prove that you are a filial son and a competent husband. At the same time, you also need to pay attention to your own self-cultivation, improve your cultural and moral qualities, and forge iron. Only in this way can you establish authority in the hearts of your children, gain their recognition and respect, and they will follow your example and learn from you how to be a person.
It's difficult to be a man, but that's fate. If you want to hide, you can't escape, if you want to escape, you can't escape. As a man, you have to take responsibility and fulfill your responsibilities as a man. You only have to work hard all your life, endure humiliation, move forward hard, and be a good son, a good husband, and a good father.