The depth of men shows the experience of life and the breadth of mind; It is the progress that leads to the world and the retreat that leads to the idyllic progress and weakness; It is the attitude and responsibility of giving up others; It is also calm and calm in the face of the changes of life. In a word, the depth of man is the thickness of life. No young man dares to brag about his depth. No matter how smart and hard you are, without time to dig, life cannot be as deep and broad as the sea.
People say they know their destiny at forty and follow their wishes at fifty. A deep man should not only be intellectualized, but also have the wisdom of life. He can know the destiny without disturbing others. He can move forward and backward in the complicated world as he pleases. This is what a big man does.
When we were young, we all liked those men who seemed to be brilliant. A lot of people fell in love with their romantic poems, and we also liked the indignant youth who were full of sharp views and thought they were cool. After maturing, I found that these are all a pool of yellow spring water ---- very tender.
The true charm of a man comes from his spiritual depth. In essence, depth is a kind of experience and morality, which shows the experience of life and the breadth of mind.
The deep man has a sense of vicissitudes on his face. He has a pair of eyes that penetrate everything. Sometimes, he is as silent as a mountain and as deep as the sea.
The depth of a man is also a kind of thickness of life. It is like a rough jade. It will not be shiny without polishing. Even if a man is smart and hard, he can't be as deep and broad as the sea without time.
Deep men are not quick-finished products. Ten years of sharpening a sword, slow work and meticulous work. From a young and impulsive young man to a hot and wise man in depth, there must be countless ups and downs! Men should be as thick as mountains. It is difficult for ordinary shallow people to be a responsible man. It requires men to have depth. It is often pointed out that men "have no hair on their lips and can't handle things well." In fact, a man without experience or immature man can't accomplish great things.
The so-called men with depth are all witty, calm, calm and wise. We must be rigorous, serious and resolute. Such a man must be very infectious and charismatic, and people will never tire of reading. Like a book with full charm, the more you read, the more interesting! It is not a person who is picky or complacent, but an empty "skin bag" that can be cut off.
However, such depth is not innate. It needs to be tempered, and the phoenix will be reborn. There is a sentence like this: "Therefore, when heaven is about to take the great responsibility, people must first work hard on their minds, work hard on their bones, starve their body and skin, empty their bodies, and mess up their actions. Therefore, they are motivated and patient, which has benefited them."
The depth of men, to some extent, can be said to be the degree of experience. It is not enough to achieve it without going through the ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties. Because of this, such a man may have experienced too many great joys and sorrows, or the road turns to the peak, or even died; Such a man has too much story deduction and transformation; Such men have too many ups and downs; Such a man has too much past and past! However, such a man also resolutely abandoned too much depression and degradation, and waved forward without hesitation. This may be the necessity of its depth, and it is also the most shining and dazzling part of men. It is also where the charm of men lies and the heart of women is shaken.
The depth of a man is neither extremely deep nor sophisticated. It is actually a manifestation of a man's temperament and heritage. A man with piercing eyes is at best a simple man, an ordinary man. The inner world of a man should be extremely rich and colorful. It has both a tender and masculine side. "Heartlessness is not necessarily a hero". A man who doesn't know human fireworks must be a monster. To be a true man, a passionate man, and a affectionate man, such a man's depth will be like an old cellar, lasting and mellow.
"The mountain is not high, but the god is famous; the water is not deep, and the dragon is spirit." A man, in fact, is not difficult to reach such a depth, as long as he has love, his depth will reach. A man with deep feelings, a man with responsibility and responsibility, should be regarded as a man with depth in today's society.
Men like to use "deep" to evaluate themselves. They have deep eyes, deep feelings and deep thoughts. So where is the "deep" of men?
The "depth" of a man is first expressed in the depth of his mind. He can see the unusual philosophy of life from the ordinary life phenomenon, or he can see what others can't see behind the ordinary life phenomenon; He can analyze things that others feel but can't explain clearly and clearly, which makes people feel enlightened and suddenly understand; He can see the irrational and abnormal causes of things that others are accustomed to, and make people wake up like a dream!
The "deep" of a man lies in his understanding of life and human nature. The so-called "deep involvement in the world" means that men, women and children of all ages are well informed and can see their life path and their inner pursuit through people's speech and behavior, personality and temperament. It is difficult for ordinary people to escape his sharp eyes. So it is difficult for a man with depth to cheat. At the same time, he is more understanding and tolerant of people. Because he knows that human nature defects are generally not his own fault, but mostly caused by environment or life, so most people are willing to associate with a man with depth to seek understanding and help.
The "depth" of a man lies in his profound knowledge, extensive reading and thorough understanding. He knows that "standing on the shoulders of giants" may see farther than giants. Because of his profound knowledge, he knows more about "boundless learning" and "mountains beyond mountains". He does not have the frivolity of high vision and low skill, nor the publicity of great ambitions and talents. He always maintains an open attitude towards life, learning from books, sociology, life, and people who are better than himself. He works tirelessly and perseveres. He understood that "learning without thinking is useless, thinking without learning is dangerous". Thinking in learning, learning in thinking, over time, has created his own unique depth.
A man's "deep" lies in his deep self-restraint. Although he can see clearly, he is not easy to express his position. He knows where to say, where not to say, when to say that someone listens, when to say that no one listens, when to say that he not only knows what to say, but also knows how to say. So he is either reticent or alarmed. He will never believe rumors, let alone spread rumors. He has profound insights, but it depends on whether you want to listen. Making friends with such people will benefit a lot.
The "depth" of a man lies in his deep emotion. He knows that regardless of his status or position, his personality is equal. People need mutual respect and support. He has a warm love in his heart and will cherish the love of others. He may not easily export the words "I love you", but once he falls in love with you and is also loved by you, he will go through fire and water for you with unswerving determination. Please note that "he is also loved by you". A man with depth will not turn around a woman like some frivolous men before he is sure that he has been loved.
In life, some men seem to have a taste of "deep", but that may be "fake", or someone said "fake deep"? Some people are "deep" in order to cover up their poverty and lowliness, while others are to hide their inner dirtiness. It is not difficult to identify the men who are really deep, confident, frank, friendly, generous, and modest, while the "fake" men have erratic eyes, inarticulate words, look at people with a dog's eye, treat people with hypocrisy, and sometimes show arrogance. Such men seem "deep", but they are shallow.
Men's "deep" is not innate, but the result of learning, thinking, and experience, even the result of hardship and pain. Another characteristic of a man with depth is that he can endure humiliation, work hard, and do not complain easily. The most difficult thing is just a new challenge for him! Don't worry if you fail. If you fall, you can get up again. Men can be defeated, but they will never be defeated! Marrying a man with depth is like relying on a big tree to protect you from the wind and shade you from the sun; It is like leaning against a deep well to give you rain and nourish you; It's like snuggling against a warm kang, giving you warmth and strength