Men defend their marriage by guarding against nine bad signs:
Many times, marriage is maintained by both parties together. If these situations arise in your marriage, you should be careful, as these are the most direct manifestations of the inability of men and women to grow old together.
Most women who cheat in marriage gradually distance themselves from their husbands, unlike those who have so much sweet talk when in love. So some men feel inexplicable about the changes in women. If men want to consolidate their marriage and live with their wives in daily life, they must learn to guard against the nine bad signs.
Many men and women thought that they had obtained a marriage certificate, so they entered the marriage safe of "getting old together". Once you have children, you feel more confident that you have obtained double insurance for your marriage and have a blind sense of love security. So, according to temperament, do whatever you want, completely disregarding the needs and wishes of the other party. Over time, the relationship between husband and wife gradually shifted from silence and dissatisfaction to complaining, arguing, resisting, running away from home, and even meeting in court, leading to the tragedy of marriage. Some couples, considering their children, public opinion, or the pressure on their families, may not have reached the stage of separation or divorce, but their relationship remains as cold as ice and becomes a makeshift family.
There are certain signs that the love between husband and wife is gradually diminishing, with the following common signs:
1、 My interest in sexual life decreases, and I use various excuses to avoid getting intimate with the other person. When it comes to expressing love, I adopt a "routine" attitude.
2、 Temper becomes irritable and irritable, often criticizing the other party for small matters.
3、 Feeling impatient with your partner's words, losing interest, and intentionally making actions that contradict their wishes.
4、 Intentionally isolate oneself and reduce activities that both parties can participate in together. Develop personal interests and exclude others from their own circle of activities.
5、 Try to minimize the time spent with your partner. For example, extending working hours and intentionally wandering outside of work.
6、 The interest in friends of the opposite sex is increasing, and even openly expressing admiration for other members of the opposite sex.
7、 Gradually reduce enthusiasm and resist the emotional expression of your partner, with a cold and heartless demeanor.
8、 Intense arguments and violent behavior frequently occur, and even in public, they will not hesitate to argue with their partners, and the severity of the arguments is increasing.
9、 The egocentrism mentality is becoming more and more obvious, only thinking about their own needs, no longer thinking about each other.
When the above situation occurs in a marital relationship, it indicates that the alarm bell for emotional breakdown has sounded. At this point, the cause should be identified, the cracks should be bridged, and the development should not become uncontrollable.