Just two months after my marriage, I quarreled with my wife several times. It's not because of anything else. The wife is good at everything. She has read too many romantic novels and is not satisfied with her sex life. I am a worker. I am in good health and have no problem with my ability in sexual life. But my wife always says that I am not romantic enough, that I don't care enough about her in sexual life, and that I should not be too anxious in sexual life. It makes my head big and I don't understand what she wants.
In my opinion, sex life is not complicated. Two people are healthy and have sexual desire. Isn't sex life straightforward? Why do you do those useless things? Besides, I won't say the sour words in the romantic TV series. I only know that my sexual function is normal and my wife has no problem. She should adapt to my style and make her sexual life full of jiqing. But now she has become very disgusted with sex life and always uses excuses to excuse her. Although I love her very much, she always makes me very angry. How can I help her change?
Sexual life cannot be "straightforward". Men and women have different sexual reactions: when men want to have sex, they may easily enter the state; But women's sexual arousal takes a longer time. During this period, if there is flirting and caressing, it is easier to enter the state, including enough secretion, enough desire and mood to have sex.
If there is no such process, don't say "full of jiqing". If you don't even have the most basic mood, you will naturally feel disgusted and shirk about sex life. Both husband and wife are equal. She should not and cannot adapt to your style. You can only make some adjustments, otherwise she will be more disgusted with sex life in the future, and your feelings and marriage will also be affected. It has nothing to do with reading romance novels.