Post Date April, 15 2023
Nowadays, almost everyone will encounter dating situations. Some people initially chat online, and if they chat for a long time, they will ask to meet. There are also some people who are dating because they want to make a blind date, which is now very common in China. Sometimes blind dates are at the home of an older person, but sometimes it may be necessary for two people to date alone because it is the first time. How can we avoid embarrassment when two people first date?
Get to know each other in advance
Nowadays, in the era of information technology, it is relatively convenient to initially recognize a person. As a man, it should take the initiative, because the most shy person to meet a girl for the first time is the other person. As a man, you should first make a preliminary understanding of the girl to familiar people in advance, judge what type of person the other person belongs to from the eyes of others, and then prepare in advance through this information. For example, if the other person may be a minority, you should understand in advance what such people avoid and believe in. Understanding the other person in advance can provide the quickest time to find their favorite topics, and then chat around their favorite topics when meeting. This will make the atmosphere much more harmonious, and also increase their liking for you.
Try not to go to a quiet place on your first date
Many people prefer to choose a quiet and elegant place on their first date, but this choice is not perfect because the quieter the time, the more focused people are. There are many facts that prove this, such as when two people meet in a coffee shop, but many people don't know what to say while talking, and the two people are at an awkward stage. If they are extroverted men, it's okay, But once both people are introverted, it may be time to end the date quickly. On a first date, it is best to choose a place where you can walk and chat, so that both people's hearts will be more relaxed, and it is likely that when you talk, you will become talkative. "A man should take the initiative to buy a small gift for the other party at this time, and the other party will be happy to accept it. However, if it is in a quiet place, the other party will feel very embarrassed.".
As a woman, it is necessary to wear and match appropriately
The first impression on a first date is very important, and as a woman, it is important to pay attention to it, because women always pursue beauty. When dating a man for the first time, it is not necessary to dress up in a showy way, but it is necessary to dress neatly. If you do not wear high heels very often, you should not wear them. Once high heels cannot walk properly, you may fall down, which will inevitably make you feel awkward. Dressing naturally, but you must be clean and tidy. Makeup must be made according to your own situation, such as your skin being relatively dark, Then don't grind the powder. Black is a sign of health, but deliberately covering it up can appear very uneven.
In addition, for men, the conversation must be appropriate, and men should be responsible for the entire dating atmosphere. They can create a little humor from time to time, but not too much. For the first time, try not to ask too many questions from the other party, and learn to chat. When appropriate, they can buy two drinks or a little snacks, as eating or drinking can reduce the conversation time, At this time, men can use their brains to choose the next topic.
