Post Date April, 15 2023
Dong Jie and Pan Yueming, once known as the "Golden Boy and Jade Girl", recently announced the end of a celebrity marriage that has lasted for three years, causing an online uproar... The relevant data of the Ministry of Civil Affairs shows that in the first three quarters of this year, 1.466 million couples nationwide registered for divorce, an increase of 11.9% over the same period last year, and an increasing trend for eight consecutive years. Research has found that divorce can immediately damage a person's physical and mental health, and the damage will last for a long time. During divorce, women are more prone to psychological problems such as anxiety, loneliness, loss, inferiority complex, depression, etc. than men, and women recover from emotional injury much longer than men. Divorce will cause more physical and psychological damage to women. Experts pointed out that marriage is maintained by both parties, and there are certain signs that the love between husband and wife is gradually declining. Strengthening communication between husband and wife and prevention in advance may help to avoid the breakdown of marriage.
There are three forces that can lead to marriage
Psychologists pointed out that there are three forces that promote a couple to grow old together: desire, infatuation and adhesion.
The first power: desire. Experts believe that desire is not equal to love. Desire is controlled by chemicals secreted in the brain, simple and clear. However, it is also a dangerous thing to have sex just for the sake of sex, because the level of oxytocin and vasopressin in the body will be too high, causing harm to health. Moreover, these chemicals can make people have a strong sense of dependence, but if the other party is not a suitable object, it is bad.
The second power: infatuation. Romantic love involves different chemicals from the first power. Experts believe that romantic love produces a chemical called dopamine, which causes people to become overly obsessed with their sexual partners. From the perspective of evolution, this natural infatuation urges the female and male animals to stay together and spend the pregnancy of the female animals together. According to a survey, people in the period of infatuation spend more than 90% of their time thinking about their lovers.
Experts pointed out that the romantic love between lovers will gradually fade over time, which may be due to two reasons: first, the nerve end of the brain has been under high level of stimulation for a long time, and gradually becomes numb; Second, the secretion level of brain chemicals gradually decreased. Regardless of the reason, the enthusiasm will gradually cool down after two to three years.
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