Post Date April, 15 2023
Marriage is a war between two people, a battle between the intelligence and personality of both spouses. Everyone living in a besieged city will have one or another problems, and they will never leave their roots. There are no more than the following ten situations. Welcome to take your seat according to your name. If your marital problems are not the following, please also take precautions.
The first type: The hidden dangers of "flash marriage" are highlighted. Flash marriage has become a common phenomenon, and one must quickly run to the Civil Affairs Bureau after falling in love at first sight, obtain a "driver's license", but without fitting in, go straight on the road. On the way, problems arose due to disharmony in each other's personalities, hobbies, lifestyles, and other issues, which led to the marriage causing suffering for the two.
The second type: the distance between husband and wife continues to widen. There is already a gap between men and women, for example, women like Romantic, but men like Normandy; Women like fashion, men like models who wear fashion. For couples, there is a gap in life interests, value orientations, interests, and hobbies, which not only makes their world more colorful, but also perfectly conforms to the law of "complementarity".
The third type: Couple life is less romantic and lacks interest. The love between husband and wife ultimately deteriorates, evolving from a beautiful and romantic love to a flesh and blood relationship. This is because marriage is actually longer than love. So under this tangible marriage, the emotional life is in a "exhausted" state, no longer "innovative", and has become thick and hard lines in the oil, salt, firewood, and rice.
Fourth type: sexual disharmony. Sex is the lubricant in marital life, and a harmonious married life makes both people rosy and energetic. On the contrary, marriage can lead to major problems. Often, sexual intercourse between couples becomes an obligation for both parties, and every time it becomes routine and tedious. Lubricants have lost their effectiveness, and the chariot of marriage is bound to encounter problems of one kind or another. This kind of hidden danger is very important!
The fifth type: Being busy all day makes love dull. Note that this is about "love" rather than "love". Love is only so prominent when it comes to falling in love with each other, and once it enters marriage, "love" becomes even more important. We should not neglect our care for each other just because of our busy schedule all day long. Mutual care and care, as well as giving love to the other half anytime and anywhere, are the fundamental factors for a happy and long-lasting married life.
Sixth type: Promises made before marriage become null and void. As many windows as there are in a city, people inside can find as many motives and reasons for getting married. No matter how different the reasons for each person to obtain that "license" may be, one thing can be the same: expectations for the future, expectations for the person who will live with them. Life is not always what people want. Everyone hopes to be wealthy, live in a villa, and drive a Mercedes Benz, but reality is often cruel. We must come together because of love, and we cannot be disappointed or heartbroken because the beautiful vision before marriage has not been realized. Be sure to believe that tomorrow will be better than today!
The seventh type: Accumulated damage. Where there are people, there will be conflicts. Couples face each other day and night, and of course, there will be fewer collisions. It is inevitable to argue, but it is not normal to not argue. However, there is a difference between arguing and hurting the other party. If both parties only express different opinions with angry expressions, it is a quarrel; If we also insult the other person's personality and trample on their self-esteem, it would be harmful.
Eighth type: Plain life makes marriage boring. Marriage always ends in mediocrity, and marriages during the mediocre period are the most prone to problems, which tests each other's intelligence. Bringing romance or novelty to a long marriage is the wisdom of a wise person. Not only will it surprise the other party, but it will also bring a second spring to a dull marriage.
