Ah, love! How happy it is to find one's own love! The chirping of birds sounds much more peaceful, and every day I feel brighter and happier!
You will feel as if you are floating in the clouds, and you don't want anything to take you away from this wonderful height.
If you have had this experience in the early stages of a relationship, then you will know how great it is. You are likely to hope to be in this state all day, and even for the rest of your life.
To be honest, I won't blame you. This feeling is really great, believe me, I understand, but it can also lead to some problems.
You know, when we experience this beauty in a relationship with someone and feel like we are in the happiness of love, many of us also find ourselves a bit addicted.
Love addiction comes from experiencing these wonderful experiences and hoping that this feeling can last forever. So we will try to spend as much time with our romantic partner as possible, so that we can continue to experience that wonderful feeling.
We abandoned our hobbies and interests, stopped going out with our friends, and basically didn't spend time doing our own things, just to spend more time with the person who can make us happy again with him. But soon, we will find that when we sit at home waiting for our romantic partner to call, or it's already the tenth time we've browsed his photos on Facebook, he's already gone out to play on his own.
At this point, it can be said with great certainty that we have entered the realm of interdependence. We completely rely on our loved ones to bring us happiness, but we lose ourselves.
However, what we didn't realize was that this time point was actually very important. At this point, we can actually turn our love addiction into something even greater: we find love through the connections we establish with each other, and by expressing this love to the outside world, we can make the world a better place.
You see, when we find love through establishing connections with each other, love fills us with vitality and brings us extra sparks of love and joy. It is at this moment that we need to change our perspective. Our habitual approach is to pay more attention to our partners and rely on them to bring us more of this joy. And what we should really do is to transform our thinking: look at the wonderful things I have experienced and the feelings of love, how can I express this love to the outside world? How can I use my inner love and joy to help others feel and experience more love?
Although there is no direct answer to the question of how to express it, here are some suggestions:
Do something unexpected. Do you see those homeless people on the street? Give them a few dollars. Do you see those people in the coffee shop who may need someone else to cheer them up? Give them a warm smile and ask if they are doing well. Send some postcards to the people you love. Call or email old friends. Give something you feel you want to give in your heart!
Create! Allow yourself to create something you love. Start writing. Draw. Photography. Plant some plants. Make some handicrafts. Do something you love that can nourish your soul!
Do something you have always wanted to do but have never done before. Have you always wanted to be a volunteer but never been? Have you always wanted to donate to a cause but haven't donated before? Have you always wanted to travel but never allowed yourself to go there? Have you always wanted to give a speech but never let it happen? These things may not seem like a necessary way to express your love to the world. However, in reality, when we utilize the energy of love gained through establishing connections with our loved ones to fulfill our inner desires, we are helping ourselves, our love, and everyone around us. When we say 'yes' to our inner voice, we help everything around us.
The above is how we turned the world into a pure, true, and unconditional place of love~~~~and how we truly changed the world and created a life full of love.
Let's take action now!
Whether you are in a relationship or not, come up with at least one thing you can do today that can bring more love to the world and your own life. What can you create? What can you bring to others? What can you do that your heart calls you to do, but you have never done it before?