That year, when I was a sophomore, my family had dinner at night. My sister was picking up all kinds of gossip about my love affair, and then my mother said, "Don't you bully other girls, huh?" I explained to my mother with indignation, "How could I bully her? She's my girlfriend, and it's too late for the pain." After three seconds of silence, my knife mouthed and heartless mother said, "Do you know there are condoms in the pharmacy?", My father blushed and said, "I've finished eating, you guys keep talking..."
Regarding condoms, in my junior year in high school, my friends and I experienced an unpleasant "sex education". "We invested a dollar in an unmanned vending machine. In an unmanned bathroom, we opened the" crime tool "with anxiety, and after getting a hand of sticky lubricant, we felt like we wouldn't love anymore. I secretly vowed that we wouldn't use that condom.". I still remember her name - "Double Disc"
My parents were very open-minded. When I decided to choose this major without "integrity," my father worried and asked me, "What are your plans for work?" My mother asked me very seriously, "Son, do you really like this?" In her eyes, I should be a pure and innocent boy. "I said I really like this, and then my mother bravely went to death and said, 'If you like, go. It's not easy for people to do something they like.'". So I often take my mother's words to remind myself that people always do what they love to do.
As a result, I have gone further and further in what I love to do - sex education is something I really want to do and love to do, and it is also recognized as the most socially meaningful thing. But I must first support myself.
Many people suggest that I sell sex toys. On the one hand, I am the first master's student in China to study sex toys, and I have a certain accumulation and foundation. On the other hand, there is a large market for people here who are foolish and have too much money. Although I have always believed that selling sex toys is a "great" profession because its essence is selling sexual pleasure and orgasms, although the public has not yet realized this, just like sex education, it is still believed that she will teach the original "pure and kind people" bad. They are always used to drawing a full equality between sexual ignorance and purity.
After seeing the ignorance and blindness of domestic toy consumers, I deeply believe that there is still a long way to go on the road of sex education. During my graduation thesis, I designed an interesting question: How do you feel about incorporating sex toy knowledge into sex education?
"Those who have used sex toys say, 'It still depends on their age and situation. Is it good for children to know?'". "I think this is a good idea, but we still need to pay attention to the methods and methods.". Some senior "players" believe that such a happy thing should be told early on how to choose and face it, and that happiness should not come too late.
Sexual pleasure is always rarely mentioned. Too many people tell us how to avoid the various problems and pains brought about by "sex", but few people tell us how to enjoy the joy of sex. In terms of the current cultural situation, avoiding all kinds of confusion and pain caused by sex is a timely help, while enjoying sexual pleasure is the icing on the cake in sex education. Some people may say that it is better to send more charcoal for sex education. After all, food and clothing have not been resolved yet, so we cannot "think about lust". But the author believes that there is practical significance in adding to the icing on the cake.
"She will make people look at the world from a different perspective, just like if sex toy stores can be openly opened in the streets and lanes, without exaggerated female nudity with severe gender discrimination to display the charm of the product, our sex education may have entered a more advanced stage of 'adding flowers to the brocade'.".
Just as our country is currently in and will be in the primary stage of socialism for a long time, sex education may or will be in the stage of knowledge popularization for a long time.
Is physiological knowledge "created" in Sao Nian? The choice of contraceptive methods, red ribbons, circumcision, sexual orientation, and sexual minorities are all basic knowledge, just as the country has been committed to eradicating illiteracy. Sexual illiteracy is like the illiteracy of reform and opening up, and the above knowledge is just like scientific knowledge that needs to be popularized like reading and literacy. Advanced knowledge includes 123 "postures" similar to orgasm, and 132 possibilities for the G-spot. This "Lagrange Mean Value Theorem", which is understood only after studying advanced mathematics in college, is not universally understood.
Reform and opening up can help us cross the river by feeling the stones, and sex education can also be bridged. Popularize knowledge and lead some people to "have sex" first, giving some happy examples to those in "deep water and hot water". "We can't always use negative textbooks like" Condyloma Acuminatum "full of negative energy to warn everyone, but now we need to provide some positive textbooks on" sex "to make the climax of sex education come faster.".
Let's follow the slogan of reform and opening up, let some people first "enjoy sex", and stride forward!