High quality marriage requires some tricks.
Trick 1: Reverse operation of love: Men rely on the taste of "victory" for their survival, while a good wife is definitely a 100% "enemy" of him. There is a woman whose husband is on a business trip, and she never follows and chases, nor does she pester her companions. When escorting her husband out of the house, she pretended to be excited and said, "I can invite many friends to dinner tonight!" Her husband called home from a foreign hotel, but she never answered the phone the first three times, and she wanted to make the other person anxious. This woman is very intelligent, and she firmly believes in the saying that a man will respect a woman he can never conquer.
Trick 2: When you handle matters, I can rest assured that in interpersonal relationships, there is no love, but there is trust. The relationship can still be maintained, and it is as solid as a rock. But if there is no trust, even if there is love, appreciation, and even profit, everything is like a castle on the sand, and it will collapse in an instant. When we view each other in a negative manner, the other person may treat us from the dark side; When we view others with positive beliefs, they may reward us with a bright side.
Trick 3: Treasured Heart An old woman who has lived for 104 years. Former US President Reagan humbly asked her what the secret of longevity is. She replied, "One is humor, the other is learning to be grateful.". Ever since her marriage at the age of 25, when she got up every morning, she has thanked God for giving her a good husband, for giving her a group of children, and for all kinds of care and consideration
If a woman can focus more on her own man rather than on abstract and ideal "love", she will more truly and truly feel the loveliness and value of her husband's every move, every word, and every action. She will cherish all these things more and truly practice love, savor love, and not expect love.
Trick 4: Don't treat each other with respect. Respect among friends is a form of respect and a requirement of etiquette. But husband and wife are different from friends, which is a very emotional interpersonal combination.
"In front of your lover, you don't need to be self bound, and you can present yourself as much as you can. It doesn't matter even if you show your true colors. As a husband and wife, this is a kind of trust and dependence. If you can't do this between husband and wife, who else do you want to do this with?"?
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)