We often use jealousy jars to describe women who are jealous. So what is the real reason why women are jealous? Do you feel calm or jealous when you see your husband discussing work and conversation with other women? So, what is the truth behind women's jealousy?
Desire to possess
Women are naturally jealous. And women's jealousy also has a strong exclusivity, mainly manifested in marriage, which is the desire to have absolute exclusive rights over their own men and become the only object of desire and interest in their husbands' hearts. So, when she sees her husband with another woman, she can't help but become jealous, which is one of the expressions of love for her husband.
Afraid of losing
Women are afraid that they will no longer be loved due to the involvement of a third party. It has to be said that this is something that many women care about and are deeply afraid of. Because I am afraid of losing, I am more cautious and care more. In fact, in many cases, a third party does not exist, but excessive worry can lead to jealousy, anxiety, and fear.
Affected by the environment
We often say that women are naturally jealous, but in reality, that's not the case. If born in a harmonious family environment, women are less likely to develop a sense of distrust. But if parents divorce due to infidelity, the likelihood of children becoming suspicious in the future will increase. In addition, love experiences can also affect the size of jealousy: being betrayed, having an ex boyfriend who is too handsome leading to constant waiting for love, can also lead women to embark on a path of jealousy.
Lack of confidence
There is a certain reason why women are so concerned about their appearance. Beautiful women are always more confident, while ordinary or even ugly women lack confidence, even feel inferior, and are even more afraid of their husbands leaving them. A woman who thinks she is ugly and uninteresting is likely to think she is not liked by men. And she also holds a skeptical attitude towards whether her partner is 100% loyal.
In a marital relationship, being jealous appropriately can attract the other party's attention and promote communication between both parties, without any significant hindrance. However, when the vinegar jar is overturned and the jealousy becomes strong, one should be vigilant. If you experience stomach pain, insomnia, and other discomfort due to jealousy, as well as flipping through your partner's pockets or reading text messages on your phone, it may affect your relationship and harm your marriage.