Lovers are what men think of when they are empty and lonely. Lovers are just condiments in life. Lovers are only things that can be lost after eating. It is themselves who suffer the most when they are lovers. Lovers' sorrow is always out of the book, and their wives are making it up.
It seems that the orientation of lovers is always the third. Women will regard lovers more important than their husbands. Men will pay their wives no matter how well they get along with their lovers. Men like to play with lovers most and trust their wives most. In men's dictionaries, lovers are others and wives are their own.
In the heart of the cheating man, his wife is still his favorite. That is to say, between wife and lover, wife is more important than lover. If the lover and wife are seriously ill at the same time, who is the man most concerned about? The answer will certainly break the hearts of many women in extramarital affairs, including their own wives. Why do men care more about their wives than their lovers? After all, the lover is only an outsider, and the wife, no matter how bad, is also his own person. The death of the lover has little to do with himself, and the death of the wife has nothing to do with the integrity of a family, so it is also a serious illness. A man will give up money to save his wife instead of spending a lot of money to save his lover.
A man's lover can often change, but his wife can't often change, because there is only one wife, but there are many lovers. The person you really love should be at home, otherwise why marry her home. Men always think of their wives first, not their lovers.
Women are worried about their lovers, while men are as light as a feather to their lovers. Lovers' love is the greatest, but they have no status. Men can only like their lovers, and they will be tired after a long time. Men who care about their families love their wives more. Although there are lovers outside, it is only a physiological need. Lovers are just a joy between lovers. The former love is just a dream, and a woman who he has not given a place, In fact, he has no status in his heart. For his lover, it is just a taste, a change of taste, and finally he returns to his wife. The lover is just for fun, only for a while, and can be changed after playing enough. An extramarital affair will come to an end one day. No matter how much love you have with your lover, your lover is a flowing water and your wife is a silent well.
There is a saying that "the wife is like her own private car, and can't be lost anywhere, the mistress is like a bus, and you have to get off at the station, and the lover is a taxi, and you can get off anywhere you want".
The family is a haven for men, and the wife is their spiritual support. As long as the family is still there, as long as the spiritual support is still there, they will not fall easily. Wife is like an object on their body. Although it is inconspicuous, it can't be easily taken down. Therefore, no matter how men spend their time outside, they will not divorce easily. They also need a stable living environment, unless their wife is really unbearable
Dear sisters, if you have a lover, please leave quickly and love yourself well. If you say that you only care about him, because he is sentimental and full of bullshit, if he really loves you, he will marry you home. A man's greatest love for a woman is to give her a home!