Improper sex education during adolescence can lead to negative consequences. Adolescent sexual awareness should be handled reasonably

Many parents have a headache about their children's sex education. Because I don't know how to convey scientific gender knowledge, sometimes the methods are incorrect, and sometimes children experience premature puberty or engage in sexual behavior earlier.

The conflict between precocious puberty and lack of sexual knowledge

My mother had a stomachache, so the doctor took me out of her belly. No, I slipped out of her belly when my mother was urinating. This is an argument between two ten year old boys that my journalist colleagues have seen, and they each affirm where they come from.

Will kissing between boys and girls lead to pregnancy? After waking up, I suddenly realized that there were milky white marks on my underwear. Isn't that strange We are not strange about these ignorant issues, but worried about them. The concern is that although the age of adolescent sexual development is advanced, there is a lack of knowledge about healthy sex.

Generally early age of sexual development

A 5-year-old girl has enlarged breasts, while a 9-year-old boy has masturbated due to sexual impulses. Yang Qin is not surprised by these premature puberty phenomena.

A 9-year-old boy insisted on his mother leaving before going to bed at night. Once, when the mother entered the room, she found her son's small face flushed with sweat on his forehead and his legs tightly clamped. In addition, the child was becoming increasingly thin and irritable, so the mother and son came to Director Yang Qin's office.

Originally, this child had foot pinching syndrome, which was a manifestation of sexual impulsivity, and the child masturbated. When her mother couldn't believe it, Yang Qin told her that the most important thing for parents is to eliminate their child's tension and anxiety, because the child subconsciously believes that this is a rogue behavior, and then cultivates good living habits for the child, telling him a certain amount of adolescent knowledge.

Due to various reasons such as nutrition and air pollution, the sexual development period of modern people is earlier than that of the previous generation. Demography research shows that in the past 100 years of the 20th century, the sexual maturity of boys and girls has advanced one year every 25 years. According to the latest statistical data, the average age of menarche in Chinese girls is 13.06 years old, one year earlier than in the 1960s. The average age of first ejaculation among Chinese boys is 14.02 years old, two years earlier than in the 1960s.

80% of sexual knowledge sources are unknown

What is adolescence, how to protect oneself, what impact masturbation has on people, menstruation has arrived, how to reflect male physical education teachers, and other issues are all raised by girls, and they have a lot of confusion. But the survey results show that the priority target for girls to acquire sexual knowledge is their peers, not their mothers. A girl wrote in a questionnaire: "My mother doesn't talk to me, and I'm too shy to speak up.