Lying is a bad behavior, especially between couples, and should be sincere. But there is also a term called "white lies", and sometimes a little harmless "white lies" between couples can serve as a good mediator for marriage, far more effective than telling the truth. What kind of white lies do men sometimes need to tell women in order to maintain marital happiness? The editor will take stock for everyone.
No, you don't look fat
No, you don't look fat, "this is the most common white lie men tell women. In fact, no matter how beautiful a woman is, she still cares about her figure. So no matter what activity you participate in, it is necessary to lie in good faith in order not to disrupt the atmosphere. When a couple is preparing to attend a party, the wife asks her husband, "Do I look fat in this way?" At this point, the best answer is, "No, of course you don't look fat." Besides ignoring this question, men feel that this answer is the safest. Although they may lie a little, it won't ruin both parties' emotions or lead to an unhappy breakup.
You remind me of movie stars
When a man says this sentence, there may be an element of 'beauty is in the eyes of the lover', but more importantly, comparing his wife to a female celebrity who has fallen into the water can enhance his girlfriend's confidence. Of course, women should be humble. Don't be proud just because your husband said this.
I only think of you, I never think of other women
A man will say to a woman, 'I only think of you, I never think of another woman.'. Actually, this is a big lie because men are visual animals, and it's normal for them to fantasize when they see beautiful women. The man doesn't have any thoughts about the beauty in the magazine, either he's Liu Xiahui or... you understand. Of course, men will not admit it, in case women become jealous and their homes are flooded with sourness.
Let's talk about it later
When men say they will talk about things in the future, most of the time it is perfunctory, especially when arguing. "Talking about things later" can avoid escalating conflicts and will not harm the relationship between husband and wife. In most cases, men don't really want to 'talk about this matter later', or rather, they don't want to talk about it at all. This kind of "cold treatment" can give both parties some time to understand a truth: it's not worth making a big fuss over trivial matters. Of course, women should also learn to be tolerant and not always dig up old accounts or cling to past trivial matters.
I like to be with your parents
When a man says this sentence, it cannot be ruled out that there are some genuine elements inside. But often, it can also be a white lie. After all, it's two families and two generations, and a generation gap is inevitable. If parents are open-minded, it's okay, but if parents are kind of arranged, there will be many contradictions. But when a man says this sentence, it is natural to win the favor of a woman and love someone, so he loves his house and family. So if he says he enjoys spending time with your family, no matter how much sincerity there is, women should feel happy, and this man loves you so much.
Sorry
A man who can say 'I'm sorry' is a good man. When a woman is feeling angry, a man's "I'm sorry" can make the woman's anger disappear and tears turn into a smile. Men find that 'sorry' is the simplest way to solve all problems. So smart men should learn to say 'I'm sorry', whether they really feel like they've made a mistake or not, just three words can solve the problem. Why not do it? Moreover, women won't really pursue your "mistakes", they just need you to coax them.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)