Post Date April, 15 2023
Choose the right time
You are angry. He is annoyed. It is not a good time to complain. Not only can you control your emotions, but he is also easily disgusted and rejected.
Lower the volume
It is not to raise the voice eight degrees angrily. On the contrary, controlling the volume of voice is to control the mood and reduce the voice to the level that only he can hear.
Choose the right occasion
If you accuse him of making mistakes in public, he will be very angry and rebellious and refuse to correct. You can avoid the conflict environment and choose an outdoor place, such as a square, park and other open places to listen to the content of complaints.
Propose solutions
After you complain about your dissatisfaction, you may suggest that he put forward a solution to the problem, "I am too tired to read at night. What time do you think it is better to read?" If he doesn't have any good ideas, you can put forward reasonable suggestions for improvement, so as to avoid long-term disputes and reach a consensus faster.
Written complaints
When you can't control your emotions, and the next complaint has become a world war, you might as well change the way to replace face-to-face expression with smokeless and fiery email. People need to think about certain language logic in order to translate their inner words into written expressions, which is a process of self-calm thinking and can avoid excessive attitudes and behaviors.
