The child was originally the child of two people, so both spouses have the right to education. But when it comes to raising children, couples have their own opinions. If two people persist in their own opinions, it can lead to disputes. Some couples even engage in big fights, which not only affects their emotions but also affects their children's psychological growth.
Tingting is in the third grade of elementary school, and her father is usually very busy with work, so her mother is basically responsible for Tingting's education. So, Tingting has a bit of an 'Oedipus' plot.
On weekends, Tingting is doing her homework, her father is sitting on the sofa watching TV, and her mother is cooking in the kitchen.
Mom, I don't know how to solve a problem. Come and help me take a look, "Tingting shouted to her mother in the study.
Let your father help you take a look, I'm cooking, "Tingting's mother responded to her.
When encountering problems that you can't do, think for yourself first. If you really can't do them, just leave it blank, "Tingting's father said to her. Tingting didn't seem to hear what her father had said to her, so she took the homework question to the kitchen and went to find her mother.
Tingting's mother had no choice but to accompany her to the study to do her homework.
You let the child think for themselves first, and if they can't figure it out, we'll guide her. Every time you do, are you doing homework or is she doing homework? "Tingting's father walked into the study and said to Tingting's mother with a reproachful tone.
If the child doesn't know how to do it, then you need to help her guide her. If you don't help her, you're still talking sarcastically here, "Tingting's mother exclaimed to her father.
You always do this, so your child can't do well in exams. Every night, homework is still written until 12:00. What's the use? "Tingting's father said angrily.
Can you blame me for my child's poor academic foundation? You usually only know how to work. Have you ever educated your child? "Tingting's mother said wrongly.
Mom and Dad, stop arguing and ask me not to do my homework anymore, "Tingting pursed her lips and said to her parents.
In a fit of anger, Tingting's father slammed the door of the study and went out.
In daily life, many couples frequently cause disputes over their children's education issues. Different educational methods and concepts make the children caught in the middle become victims, and also deepen the rift in the couple's relationship. Faced with children's education, couples should adopt a correct attitude to maintain emotional harmony.
For example, couples can wait for their children to go to bed and sit down calmly to discuss whose education method is more suitable for their children. Alternatively, they can find a compromise in their education method and solve conflicts with their children in a humorous way. This can make the family more harmonious and deepen the relationship between the couple.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)