Post Date June, 30 2023
The clitoris is composed of a pair of Cavernous tissue that can erect and swell, and is divided into three parts: head, body and feet. The diameter and length of the Clitoral glans are about 2-5 mm, and their size has great individual differences, even if it is 10 mm thick, it is normal. The Clitoral glans is the only visible part of the clitoris. The Clitoral glans of many women has been hidden in the longer and tighter Clitoral hood until they feel a strong Libido, and only when they reach a certain degree of Sexual arousal can they be obviously exposed.
When touching and pressing a certain part through the Clitoral hood, you can feel the clitoral body as thick as a matchstick. It swells after Sexual arousal, which is obvious to the touch, thick and firm. The clitoral body is divided backward into a pair of cylindrical Crus of clitoris, which are larger than the Clitoral glans and the clitoral body, about 40 mm long, like two wings extending from the clitoral body to both sides, firmly fixing the clitoris to the pubic and sciatic branches of the pelvis.
The clitoris contains rich and sensitive Free nerve ending, whose density is 6 to 10 times higher than that of surrounding tissues or glans penis, and is very sensitive to touch. If skillfully stimulated, it is often easy to stimulate women's libido, and can often make women reach Orgasm without sexual intercourse. Generally speaking, stimulation of the clitoral body is better than direct stimulation of the Clitoral glans, especially near orgasm. Women must actively participate, act as guides and conductors, clearly indicate their most sensitive parts and favorite stimulation methods to their partners, and communicate fully at any time. Otherwise, letting their blind partner ride a blind horse and collide recklessly not only wastes time and energy, but also makes women feel disappointed and irritable.
According to statistics, two-thirds of women are more willing to receive clitoral stimulation, believing that the pleasure brought by clitoral stimulation is much stronger than that brought by vaginal stimulation. But there are also many women who do not accept this practice.
The clitoris, which has been explored for many years, is the most mysterious, sensitive, and unpredictable part of a woman's body. Such a small organ, in intimacy, embrace, and touch, brings great excitement, pleasure, happiness, and desire to many women. Although there are still many mysteries to be solved, sexologists are convinced that the clitoris is the true emotional zone for women and the main source of sexual pleasure for women.
Be kind to the clitoris
Dr. Ruth Westheimer pointed out in the newly published Guide to Sex for Dummies that from the perspective of anatomy, women's clitoris and men's penises originate from the same tissue. Although the size of the clitoris is much smaller than that of the penis, the number of Free nerve ending in the clitoris is the same as that in the penis, so in the process of sexual life, the clitoris is as sensitive as the penis, or even more sensitive than the penis. The difference is that in addition to being a pleasure organ, the penis also has the function of urination, while the clitoris does not have the function of urination and is very hidden. Therefore, in the underdeveloped period of medical science, especially sexual science, people often mistakenly believe that it does not have much effect, which makes it a "victim" of "circumcision".
Although the United Nations and the World Health Organization have condemned the practice of forced female circumcision in some countries, the practice of "circumcision" of baby girls, girls, and girls continues in some African countries. This completely ignorant approach has made many women's external genitalia ugly, scarred, and painful for a long time, especially during menstruation and sexual activity, which is a great tragedy.
The correct approach should be to protect and "treat" the clitoris well. In the past, early sexual psychologists, including Freud, believed that women could have "two types of Orgasm", that is, to stimulate the clitoris to get a "childish immature orgasm", and to stimulate the vagina to get an "ideal mature orgasm". Therefore, attention should be paid to protecting the vagina rather than the clitoris. However, according to the latest sexual research results, sexologists believe that this statement is incorrect. Although different parts can be stimulated to get different feelings, there is only one Orgasm, and the effects of clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation complement each other. The latest sexual report of Kinsey Institute (the famous Institute of Sexology founded by Alfred Kinsey, an American zoologist and sexologist in the 1940s at Indiana University) also shows that 75% of women need to stimulate the clitoris to achieve Orgasm, which shows the importance of the clitoris to human sexual life.
Dr. Kenneth Stubbs suggested that men should pay attention to two points when "operating": first, they should not think that this is an unsightly thing, but should think that this is a lifetime "happiness" granted by God to women; The second is to observe the "happiness level" women receive. If the effect is not good, you can ask the woman to teach (how to do it) in reverse, because women know how to stimulate themselves most effectively and feel more pleasure. From the perspective of harmonious sexual life between couples, women's sexual pleasure can be fed back to men, so when men do this, the ultimate beneficiary is themselves.
Misunderstandings about the clitoris
One of the misconceptions: In the past, it was believed that the size of the clitoris was directly related to a woman's sexual ability. However, neither laboratory nor clinical Empirical research has obtained clear evidence to support this view, so women need not worry about the size of their clitoris. The key is not size, but technique, understanding, patience, and communication.
Mistake 2: In the past, it was always said that if women masturbate for a long time, the Clitoral glans will become larger, and the clitoral body will become thicker and larger. It is true that Clitoromegaly can be seen among women with decades of masturbation history, but it is often known from their sexual history that they have widely used one or more mechanical stimulation methods. Of course, the first thing to rule out is the influence of persistent androgen (whether it is over secreted by the adrenal gland in the body or exogenous by oral or Intramuscular injection). In principle, the clitoris only has connective tissue such as elastic fibers and smooth muscle fibers, so various mechanical or manual stimulation will not produce a proliferation reaction that is easy to see on the Striated muscle tissue. For example, through physical exercise, the muscles of the arms and legs can be developed, but the smooth muscle must not be proliferated. This is just like the male penis, it is difficult to make the penis grow and thicken through instruments such as negative pressure suction devices, and the reason why breast implants cannot be trusted lies in this.
Misunderstanding No. 3: Various marriage manuals and guides repeatedly emphasize how to directly stimulate the clitoris with the penis during sexual intercourse. In fact, direct friction between the penis and clitoris cannot occur unless a man makes special efforts to make the penis stem directly adhere to the woman's entire clitoris. When the sexual tension is highly increased, it is difficult for the man to maintain this high overlapping Sex position, especially when the woman's Vaginal orifice is tight, which has not yet reached the degree of relaxation like a midwife. Women often complain about discomfort in the vaginal opening or rectum. At this point, the penis cannot be fully inserted into the depths of the vagina, so the vaginal dilation that the male penis should experience will disappear completely. Therefore, in order to better stimulate the clitoris and stimulate female sexual desire more quickly, the method of gently rubbing the female clitoris with an erect penis before sexual intercourse can also be used. It is an ideal, clever, and practical method that is very popular with women.
In addition, both parties can directly stimulate the clitoris with their hands while the penis twitches during sexual intercourse in Woman on top, lateral and sitting positions. This two pronged approach will undoubtedly speed up the arrival of Orgasm and enhance the intensity of sexual pleasure, which is also an important technical means to treat female Anorgasmia. Some marriage manuals spare no effort in discussing the caressing of the clitoris, as well as why and when to stimulate it. However, for far more important guidance, such as how to caress the clitoris and how much stimulation is required, few people pay attention. Research has found that there are significant differences among women in this area, with few requiring identical procedures. However, the vast majority of women share a common tendency to avoid directly touching the clitoris at the beginning of sexual activity.
Through the observation of masturbation after Clitoridectomy, we can get strong evidence to support the view that the pubic mound is another sex sensitive area. The effect of separately stimulating the perineal area after surgery is equally effective as before, with masturbation often mainly concentrated in the perineal area and only rarely concentrated on the scar after surgery.
Most women who actively masturbate are never satisfied with one Orgasm when touching themselves with clitoral stimulation, so they will control the level of sexual response to experience repeated Orgasm until they reach full physical and mental satisfaction and appear physical exhaustion. But some women still maintain or evoke an increasingly strong sense of demand for the opposite sex. If environmental conditions do not allow, they often fall into an uncontrollable state of irritability or depression, causing physical and mental setbacks.
The retraction reaction of the clitoris during the plateau period often confuses men, so they often stop stimulating and try to find it back. This wrong approach by men is another common reason for significant setbacks for highly excited women, as they find it difficult to recover from the distraction of their physical and mental attention. As a result, the level of sexual tension during the plateau period will dissipate and their previous achievements will be wasted. The hopelessness of Orgasm aggravates the frustration, and the congestion of pelvic organs cannot be dissipated. The correct approach is for the male partner to continue to actively and effectively stimulate the entire genital area until orgasm arrives, so that they can be satisfied.
