Post Date April, 15 2023
At 7 am: My wife is busy preparing breakfast, tidying up her schoolbag, and sending the children to school... Before going out, my wife showed an ambiguous expression and asked, "Honey, do you know what day it is today?" At this time, my husband must be confused.
According to the American gender magazine Red Book, after having children, focusing on the daily lives of the next generation becomes the whole of family life. However, some studies have shown that if parents pay too much attention to their children and become estranged from each other, children will experience this unhappiness and lack a sense of security for their families. To address the negative impact of children on marital intimacy, American marriage experts provide the following suggestions:
Change starts with small things. Some couples always say, "When the children grow up, we will have time to enjoy the two person world again." Those who hold this idea will only become increasingly dissatisfied with the reality. In fact, with a little change, life can be completely different. For example, get up 15 minutes early every day and wash and chat together; Or wait until the children fall asleep and sit together for a while.
Children are not allowed to be mentioned in the world of two. "If the couple goes out alone, they temporarily forget the fact that they are already parents, and do not discuss anything about the child.". You can talk about the happiest, most embarrassing, or most unhappy things of the day. This type of topic often goes deeper and draws closer to each other.
