How to Have Smooth Sex in a New Marriage: Some Essential Knowledge for a Bride and Bride

What should we pay attention to during newlywed sex? The first sexual encounter between newlyweds is exciting, but due to a lack of experience, both parties may inevitably experience some awkwardness. So what should we pay attention to during newlywed sex? Below is an introduction for you.

1、 What to pay attention to during newlywed sexual intercourse

Wedding night is the most exciting moment in life. Many men drink a lot of alcohol before getting married, causing them to become mentally disoriented. In addition, being able to have sex with their beloved at night can make them very excited, which leads to overexertion during sexual intercourse. Don't do this again, the bride can't bear too much love!

1. Kissing too much, the bride dies suddenly

On the wedding night, after a tumultuous night, the guests finally dispersed and remained quiet. On the wedding bed, the groom vigorously kissed the bride for a long time, from her bright lips to her fragrant cheeks and then to her jade neck. The bride initially responded, but gradually moved less and less, and in the end, there was no sound. Due to drinking too much alcohol, the groom did not notice the bride's abnormality.

Enough waiting for the groom to kiss heartily. When I was preparing to have sex, I realized that the bride had quietly passed away. According to forensic examination, there is a significant lip shaped indentation on the left side of the bride's neck. This is due to the groom's prolonged pressure on the carotid sinus during kissing, resulting in a decrease in the bride's blood pressure, slowing down her heart rate, and ultimately death.

it happens that there is a similar case, The other bride is also on her honeymoon She died in sexual bliss. One night during sex, she was tightly hugged and pressed under her body by the burly groom, and tightly sealed her cherry mouth with thick lips, with a great potential to integrate the bride into her body. After orgasm, the husband slowly released his beloved wife, but she had already taken the crane west. Originally, the bride was unable to perform chest breathing and abdominal breathing due to excessive pressure on her chest and abdomen, and her mouth was sealed and she couldn't make a sound. She was suffocated by sexual love and died alive.

Kind reminder: These are two extreme examples, although the occurrence rate is very small, it should also sound an alarm for us. Due to novelty and long-term sexual repression before marriage, it is understandable that there may be some extreme expressions in sexual life during the newlywed period. However, one must be vigilant against tragedies that may arise as a result. Newly married couples must understand some basic medical knowledge and avoid forceful compression of important organs such as the neck, chest, and abdomen during sexual activity.

When it comes to sexual activity, the bride lacks experience in self-protection, which requires the groom to be patient and gentle during sexual activity. They should also carefully observe the bride's physical and psychological changes, inquire about her feelings at any time, and stop sexual activity immediately if any abnormalities are found. If necessary, they should be sent to the hospital for treatment.

2. Rough movements, vaginal injuries

On the wedding night, the groom remembered the famous saying: "No matter how gentle a woman is, he doesn't like the gentleness of a man on the wedding bed. So he urgently" broke through the hymen of the bride. Repeated and intense thrusts made the bride feel painful and could not help moaning.

After enduring the groom's constant tossing and turning for several nights, the pain in the bride's lower body became even more severe, making it difficult to walk and emitting a foul smelling red and yellow liquid. Gynecological examination: The bride's vagina is congested and swollen, with new and old scars alternating between the vaginal opening and wall, and yellow pus can be seen in the red oozing blood. Conclusion: Improper sexual intercourse can cause vaginal injury and secondary infection.

Reminder: Young women's sexual arousal takes a long time, and entering a state of sexual excitement requires a certain prelude. If the husband does not understand these basic knowledge and forcefully inserts and forcefully pumps while the wife's vagina is still dry, it can cause scratches or superficial lacerations to the wife's tender vaginal opening and wall, leading to infection.

Therefore, during sexual activity, it is important to gradually engage in sufficient sexual foreplay. After entering, the pumping action should not be too violent and the amplitude should not be too large. Pay attention to your wife's feelings and engage in sexual intercourse harmoniously in order to obtain joy from sex.

2、 New Couples Must Know Common Sense

1. Will the Wife Be Popular on Wedding Night

The female vaginal orifice has a thin mucous membrane, called hymen, which contains blood vessels and nerves. There is a small hole in the center of the membrane. The diameter of the male penis is generally larger than the diameter of the hole. Therefore, the hymen will break during the first sexual intercourse, and a small amount of blood will flow out, which is called "redness". However, strenuous sports such as physical labor and sports activities may lead to the rupture of hymen. Therefore, not all wives may "see red" on their wedding night.

After the hymen ruptures, there will be redness and swelling at the edge of the fissure, and there may be small black clots, which are generally absorbed and subsided after 2-3 days. If this phenomenon is encountered, it is better to have sex again every 2-3 days after the first sexual intercourse to prevent wound inflammation. If there is a lot of bleeding when the hymen ruptures, you should seek medical advice in an emergency to avoid accidents. Do not be afraid of being laughed at and delay treatment. During first sexual intercourse, the male partner may experience premature ejaculation or sexual failure due to a lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. There is no need to worry about this phenomenon. With the growth of sexual knowledge and experience after marriage, the problem will gradually be solved through coordination and cooperation between the two parties.

2. Pregnancy is not recommended during marriage during tourism

(1) During the journey, the couple was too tired, nervous, had poor rest, and lacked sleep. In addition, in order to arrange the marriage, the man's physical strength and potential were consumed too much, and the quality of sperm was relatively poor. At this time, pregnancy was not conducive to eugenics.

(2) Life is irregular during tourism, and there is no guarantee of food and accommodation. Both pregnant women and fetuses cannot receive the comfortable environment and sufficient nutrition they deserve.

(3) Pregnant women are physically weak and prone to catching colds and other diseases during travel, which is extremely detrimental to the growth and development of the fetus.

(4) It is difficult to ensure hygiene during pregnancy during tourism, coupled with intense emotions and frequent sexual activity at the beginning of a new marriage. At this time, pregnancy can cause adverse stimulation to the fetus, easily leading to miscarriage, and in severe cases, it can lead to secondary infertility or other gynecological diseases.

So, newlyweds should take contraceptive measures during their travels and preferably avoid getting pregnant. Once pregnancy is discovered, travel should be stopped and one should return home as soon as possible to rest.