Post Date May, 17 2023
After entering the palace of marriage, perhaps men and women may no longer have the passion they had when they were in love, and their curiosity about sex may not be as mysterious and slowly disappear. Therefore, please be careful at this time, as it may lead to a lack of passion in the relationship between husband and wife, which may lead to a breakdown. Below, I will teach you how to have a satisfying sexual life with a spouse, make sex more beautiful, and make marriage happier and more fulfilling.
1. Watch less romantic dramas
If you are very obsessed with a romantic drama and often indulge in romantic love stories, be careful not to affect the relationship between your husband and wife. Dr. Sean Patrick Hart, a Seattle psychologist, believes that people who enjoy watching romantic dramas can easily refer to the characters in the dramas and have unrealistic expectations for their marital relationships, which can lead to frequent setbacks and inner pain.
2. The wife maintains a good figure
Research has found that if women have an advantage over men in terms of appearance and physique, then the duration of marriage is higher. Benjamin Carney, a psychology professor at the University of California, believes that this is because women have the upper hand in body shape and are more willing to invest and contribute to each other's happiness.
3. As a beginner
Whether it's 6 months of marriage or 6 years, occasionally entering the scene of first acquaintance, raising questions that can enhance understanding. Marriage and romance expert Dr. Terry Orbach believes that everyone is constantly changing and developing, and frequent communication and mutual understanding between couples can make the relationship stronger. Therefore, it is important to set aside some time every day to talk about things beyond daily chores.
4. Control alcohol consumption
Excessive drinking can seriously affect marital relationships and increase the risk of divorce. Loving alcohol and attending various parties can increase the chances of having an affair and bring great risks to marriage. Dr. Hart suggests that in order to have a stable and close marital relationship, one should learn to control alcohol consumption and face emotions rationally.
5. The argument does not spread
Husband and wife quarrels should not spread infinitely. Dr. Jessica Salvatore of the University of Minnesota believes that needle pointing and chattering are taboos during arguments.
6. Don't be obsessed with electronic products
An online survey of 100000 people in the United States shows that people who are crazy about social networks are less likely to maintain a partner relationship. Dr. Hart pointed out that frequent viewing of electronic devices such as smartphones is not beneficial for maintaining romantic relationships, but rather reduces direct communication between couples.
7. Successful women should keep a low profile at home
There is a famous "Oscar curse" in the United States, which is that female winners often have broken families. Researcher Dr. Colin Stewart believes that the great success of a wife can make her husband very uncomfortable, so it is important to maintain a low profile at home.
8. Men should have more feminist awareness
Giving a wife full respect and freedom will make sexual intercourse more harmonious and marriage more stable.
9. Advise close friends not to divorce
If one's close friends divorce frequently, it may also increase the risk of divorce. Dr. Ross McDermott, who studies this issue, analyzed that when a friend experiences a marital crisis, persuading them not to leave is also a protection for their marriage.
10. Having Happy Sex
Pleasant sex can unleash the desires of both body and mind, filling marital life with a sense of happiness.
