How to educate children who always want to spy on their parents' sexual life? Teach you these moves

Accidentally seeing adult sexual intercourse, I don't know the reason or secret, but I'm a bit curious and happy. Curiosity, wanting to find the final happiness, wanting to imitate. They waited for the opportunity to see it with their own eyes again. They speak among peers of the same age. They clearly pose a series of difficult problems in front of reliable adults. When encountering opportunities, play sex mobile games. He is a very boy, ignoring the other person's intentions, forcibly playing mobile games, and vulgar imitating the movements of the room. The above is not a script for a certain travel movie, but a script that truly occurs in daily life. Parents must pay attention to the harm to their children when having sex.

1、 People's privacy protection

The love of small animals and the mating of noisy male animals also work calmly in public. From the Urgesellschaft to the present, men and women like it very much, and they start from beginning to end in the hidden place secretly. Primitive humans engaged in sexual pleasure in the depths of the jungle and the back of the cave, while modern humans walked through the clouds and rain in their family compartments.

The matter is very strange. The settlement standards are not good (parents and children living together suffocating, and even bedridden), parents lack cleanliness, and children accidentally see sexual behavior, which is not uncommon. In the awkward spare time, the problem that should be considered is that children see the sexual pleasure of adults (or parents or brothers and sisters) with their own eyes. What harm will it do to their own consciousness?

2、 Reflection of children and adolescents of all ages

According to the survey report, children of different ages who accidentally see adult sexual intercourse have different psychological states and completely different reactions.

Children aged 3-4

Many are still sleeping with their parents, and some are still sleeping together. After the child went to bed, the parents had sex. Couples have sex because their eyes are empty, their posture is too large, intense, proud, and the joyful sound during sexual intercourse awakens the child. When the child wakes up, the fashion trend is unclear, their sleep eyes are blurry, and they see the sound of their parents and couples having sex. They are also husbands and monks, and they cannot touch their heads. Parents feel that there is no reason for their children to stay up late at night. Drowsy, indifferent, rolled over and fell asleep again.

Parents should immediately stop posturing when their child wakes up, pay attention to cleanliness, and ask their child in confusion. Quietly warn, and don't let it slip, which can cover up the past and eliminate the joy of sexual intercourse in young children. However, over and over again, over and over again, it's over and over again, and things have become more complicated.

Children aged 5 to 5 years or older

Surprisingly seeing adult sexual intercourse, I don't know the reason or secret, but I'm a bit curious and happy. Curiosity, wanting to find the final happiness, wanting to imitate. They waited for the opportunity to see it with their own eyes again. They speak among peers of the same age. They clearly pose a series of difficult problems in front of reliable adults. When encountering opportunities, play sex mobile games. He is a very boy, ignoring the other person's intentions, forcibly playing mobile games, and vulgar imitating the movements of the room.

Children aged 10-12

It's no longer a strange curiosity to accidentally see adult sexual intercourse. They usually have sex, compare the rape posture and social customs of sex offenders in film production, and make their own opinions. They confuse sexual activity in a reasonable and legal marital life with illegal and improper sexual violence. They believe that the father bullies the mother, brother-in-law, and the bad sister, sister, sister, sister, sister, sister, sister, sister, sister, and sister. Children unconsciously see the joy of sexual intercourse, and adults do not need to feel embarrassed, dirty, or ashamed. Attempting to cover many aspects with rebukes and threats is redundant and useless. Honestly, naturally, and generously tell children that having sex between couples is naturally an instinctive reaction of people. Everyone needs to live a married life when they grow up. Unwrapping transparent gauze does not help children's self-awareness and physical and mental health.

Couples are accidentally met by their children while they are clattering, making them understand that sex is a happy thing, not a shameful thing, and there is no need to understand the child's sexual needs. When discussing all relevant issues with their children, parents should try to convey love, emotions, and various values in the brand image, with honest treatment and a calm mood. Planting sex in the child's young heart is happy, but it is important to control the seeds of sexual activity and help the child develop a healthy sexual awareness.

In order to prevent children from seeing their parents' privacy protection, parents must pay attention to choosing the natural environment in which they live together. A standard house should encourage children and parents to sleep in separate beds from a young age. When children are obedient, they should sleep in separate rooms to give them a unique little world. In addition, it is important to pay attention to the privacy protection of children by knocking on the door when entering their room. Children should also pay attention to the privacy protection of their parents by knocking on the door when entering their room.