Post Date May, 13 2023
Recently, an association in Japan called "National Love Husbands" launched the "Thank You", "Sorry", and "I Love You" campaigns, and developed 10 levels of good husbands to encourage more husbands to boldly express their emotions to their wives.
Three sentences that a good husband often talks about
Experts said that these three sentences are also the most difficult for Chinese couples to say, and the root is actually in the marriage certificate.
He said that all men have a common thinking that the marriage certificate represents all love and thanks to their wives, so it is unnecessary to say anything in daily life. It is often this mentality that prevents various "toxins" from being eliminated in a timely manner when couples are together, accumulating day by day and ultimately irreparable.
Top Ten Levels of Good Husbands in Japan
Level 1: Love your wife after 3 years of marriage
Level 2: Can effectively help with household chores
Third Estate: Never cheated his wife, or was never found lying by his wife
Fourth Estate: "Women first"
Level 5: Can walk hand in hand with his wife
Level 6: Able to listen attentively to his wife's words
Level 7: Able to solve problems between wife and mother in one night
Level 8: Can say "thank you" without hesitation
Level 9: Not afraid to say 'I'm sorry'
Level 10: Able to say 'I love you' without shyness
Being able to say 'I love you' without shyness
Thank you
Not equal to a sense of distance
It is a common scene in families: when a guest arrives, the wife brews a cup of tea for the guest and the husband respectively. The guest politely says "thank you", but the husband often accepts it with peace of mind without any expression. The man's explanation for this is: where are all the old husbands and wives? There are so many red tape.
Actually, this is a man's excuse. In their hearts, the marriage certificate represents everything. The words of gratitude are included in the certificate, which is redundant. And saying "thank you" means that they respect their wife as an outsider.
Dr. Zhuang Wenhao believes that men and women are people from two planets, each with their own language. In men's language, the main focus is to solve problems and achieve important goals, such as achievement, career, money, etc; In women's language, it is through speaking to vent their inner emotions, especially regarding household chores, work matters, etc. in life. As long as a man takes a little care to learn a little woman's language, he can make his wife satisfied.
