After men enter puberty, their sexual hormones are continuously secreted, various physiological functions are mutated, and the genitals and their functions mature rapidly. During the period of passionate love, the psychological activities related to sex, such as sensibility, emotion, memory and imagination, are very active. The girl's bright eyes, white teeth, slim figure and fragrant smell. In short, all the stimuli she brings to the young man's vision, taste, hearing, touch and smell are important factors that cause his sexual impulse. If feelings are compared to oars, then reason is the rudder. Only with the tacit cooperation of the two can the boat of love reach the other side of happiness. The young man before marriage may be the test of this "control" skill. The waves caused by sexual impulse make young people confused, powerless, and even ship hegemony stranded. Only young people with strong will can calm the waves and set sail.
Pre-marital sex is a deviant behavior that violates social morality at the stage of love and has great harm to the development of love.
1、 Premarital sex is illegal
In our country, sex life is the right of the legal couple and an important part of the couple's life. It must be protected by law. It can never happen casually between any man and woman.
2、 Premarital sex is easily frustrated
There are two prospects for love: lovers get married, or there is no fate to break up. If a sexual relationship occurs, one party likes a new one, the other party likes a new one, or breaks up for other reasons, it will bring serious setbacks and blows to the other party. Bring greater pain to young women.
3、 Premarital sexual behavior leads to psychological disorder of both parties
The parties have more sexual behaviors in a tense and urgent state, and the young people lack the necessary sexual knowledge. This kind of sexual life is difficult to be happy and harmonious. It will not only lead to the decline of the pleasure of sex life on the wedding night, but also give some girls an abnormal view of sex life. For example, they believe that sex life is painful, unclean and unpleasant, and they have boredom, disgust and fear of sex life, and sexual apathy, which affects the normal sex life after marriage. If you are not careful about pregnancy, both parties will fall into an awkward situation. Early abortion is safe, but it will eventually bring physical and psychological pain and loss to the girl, and dangerous complications will also occur.
4、 Premarital sex may lead to unhappiness in married life