It is said that whoever you marry, you choose the right kind of life. Looking around at the women and children who live happily and grow happily, one can find that good husbands and good fathers usually have these characteristics.
Having a job you love and being able to earn money to support your family (+20)
Having a certain level of financial ability is the most basic criterion for measuring whether a man can become a good husband and father.
The biggest difference between marriage and love is to face firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea every day after marriage. Housing loans, car loans, children's education, daily expenses... everything requires spending money, without sufficient financial capacity to support a family, how can one become a good man?
Responsible and responsible (+10)
A responsible man must be a mature man. He won't let his wife and children suffer, he will work hard for this family and ensure that his loved ones have no worries about food or clothing.
He will not bring home the grievances he has suffered outside, no matter how tired he is, he will laugh at his wife and children.
Because he knows that he must prop up a sky for his family. He never talks about being "busy" because he knows that whatever he does is for the sake of his family, and nothing is more important than the big and small treasures at home.
Respect your wife, be a lover and friend (+10)
Love her, so respect her. He is well aware that the marital relationship is the core of the family. Parents love each other and let their children grow up in a harmonious and happy environment, which is the best education for their children.
When encountering things, he never makes his own decisions, but consults with his wife, whose opinions are very important to him.
Never forget any important anniversary (+10)
Life requires a sense of ceremony, and he never feels that this is affectation. On every special day, he meticulously prepares gifts for his wife and children, and no matter how busy he is, he takes time to celebrate with his family.
He knows that his heart will make his family happy, and the happiness of his family is his greatest satisfaction.
Filial Piety to Parents (+20)
Becoming a father on my own, I realized that being a parent is not easy. With his own small family, he won't forget everyone. He knows how to grasp the balance between them. Besides being filial to his own parents, he never snubbed his wife's parents. Because he remembered promising to 'be filial to your parents like he was to his parents'.
Every holiday, he would bring his parents over and cook a delicious meal for them.
I never thought that housework was a woman's business (+10)
Returning home and doing household chores with someone you love is also a very happy thing.
He likes to cook with his wife, wash dishes together, and then walk hand in hand. This is the little day they once longed for.
Love her forever (+50)
He knew that marriage would make the once intense and passionate emotions dull, but for her, he worked hard not to let love be defeated by reality. He used his own way to guard the temperature of this emotion. Every night before bedtime, there is a kiss, occasional small surprises, and every sentence of 'I love you' is full of deep affection.
Dear friends, has your family passed the exam?