Post Date May, 31 2023
If you ask many women how much they value men's looks when choosing a partner, a large number of lascivious women will immediately announce that they are "not close to men's looks" and firmly oppose judging people based on their appearance. They will speak up and give a lot of reasons. If he has a bad temper... when he was in college, he fell in love with a cool looking and quirky looking "male school girl" in his dormitory. Originally a spoiled and lazy young lady who didn't even bother to fold her blankets, he was busy washing his boyfriend's lunch box and coat every day.
Just being so ingratiating, the "male school flower" still has a bad temper. If he feels a little unhappy, he will change his face and slam the door, making the girl often cry in anger. But as soon as he returned, he smiled like a flower and said 'I'm sorry', and the girl burst into tears and smiled again. A man with outstanding appearance has been liked by his parents and teachers since childhood. Even if he has a bad temper and does wrong things, he is easily forgiven by others. I used to quite like this male school flower, but seeing his "personality", imagine if I were in that girl's position, I might as well save it. The victim of 'love at first sight' saw the handsome face of the man and immediately thought that he should be a Harvard genius, or the only son of a billionaire, at least a profound thinker. They fell in love with him wholeheartedly, only to find out that he was just a tiger headed cat.
Except in TV dramas and Hollywood blockbusters, how can most women rarely see handsome man who are both inside and outside and who are genuine? Even if there is a handful that can barely make up, there is already a master of famous flowers, how can one still turn to oneself? When you worry about him being pryed into and going out with him every day, you often dare not leave your boyfriend for half a step. In a restaurant, you even dare not go to the bathroom, afraid that other women will take advantage of it. Nowadays, girls are very powerful. They are simply not pursuing men, but launching romantic terrorist attacks against them, and using "weapons of mass destruction".
In the past, women traded their beauty for money and social status. Nowadays, women have become independent and use their social status and humor to conquer men. If you "conquer" him and still worry about him being "conquered" by others every day, this sense of insecurity makes most women only dare to look at beautiful men from afar and dare not approach them closely. Will he only love himself? Some handsome men have obvious "narcissism". He is intoxicated with self appreciation, and in elevators or restaurants, as long as there is a mirror to look at, he will never forget to pity himself. At this point, he placed his girlfriend in a secondary position and out of sight.
In daily life, people always like beautiful children. From kindergarten to school, teachers unconsciously pay more attention to beautiful children. In families, parents also tend to be biased towards beautiful children. So women always worry? There is a man who loves "male school grass" in the middle school, which is quite similar to Jimmy Lin. A few days ago, I met him on the street, and I couldn't even recognize him. He had already started to put on weight, his facial skin was flaccid, and the corners of his eyes were ruthlessly wrinkled. How could I still find the shadow of the Jade Tree in the Wind back then? On the contrary, there was a trend for inconspicuous boys at that time to have a shelf life of 30 years. Beautiful men, like beautiful women, are as beautiful and fragile as petals. Falling in love with beauty is as unsafe as falling in love with meteors.
There are two reasons why I dare not be his girlfriend. I don't know what I need to look like and how much assets I have to be worthy of the "beauty and beauty" around me. I have enough psychological advantages to stand by his side and accept people's opinions and opinions; 2、 I am afraid of turning into a street mouse when I walk on the street, and all my female compatriots want to belittle me. After the divorce photo of Feifei and Adam Cheng, she said to her daughter, "Don't look for the handsome boy. It's hard to keep the handsome boy!" Women most want to entrust their life to a handsome, kind and capable man. Unfortunately, you can't have both fish and bear's paw. When God opens a door for you, he will close a window. The best of both worlds is always rare and rare.
