Keyword: Did your sister really like you?
Q: When I was chasing my girlfriend, Crow Dada was still talking to me very enthusiastically, but after I caught up with her, she became less chatty with me. She said she was busy at work and was busy late every day. Occasionally, she took the initiative to talk to me once. She talked to her ex boyfriend very vaguely and said she was single and didn't have a boyfriend. She was hit by a car when I saw her asking her if she didn't want to explain more, so she told me she just broke up and couldn't forget her ex boyfriend She said she still had feelings for me. I had sex with her that time, and I forgave her. Later, when I returned to Fuzhou, she had a fight in Xiamen, and she said she couldn't forget her ex boyfriend. She said we should be friends. I didn't pester and break up. I wanted to know if she ever liked me. Do I want to save this relationship
A: Of course I do, but this girl hasn't forgotten her ex in her heart at present. Obviously, it's because she invested too much in her predecessor, and you don't have a significant value gap with her predecessor, so here's not much advice for you to recover. Or in other words, if you increase your value to a level higher than her ex boyfriend, the girl will automatically be attracted back by you.
2 Keyword: Confession
Q: # Crow Love Question # Teacher Crow, I recently flirted with a younger sister. Previously, her friend said that someone was looking for a boyfriend, and then I went to ask for her WeChat. I started chatting quite well, but once I forgot to come back and I haven't chatted since. Later, she commented on my friends' circle and I took the initiative to chat. I have been chatting very well for almost a month, and the relationship is also very ambiguous. Then I mentioned being together, and she said to see his mood. Last night, she took advantage of the strength of the wine to express her feelings. She said she was suitable for being a friend. Today's chat was obviously cold, and I haven't been back to you since. What should I do? Thank you for your guidance!
Answer: When a girl and you are in an ambiguous period, your relationship is more delicate, and confessing is the wrong behavior. "Because you have to lead a girl to admit that she likes you, and then give a reasonable reason to be together.". At this point, you should not care about the attitude of a girl towards you, but rather put aside the establishment of a relationship for the time being, as it will reduce the psychological pressure of a girl. Maintain your humorous style when chatting to re attract her, then gradually use the behavior of a girl who shows a favorable impression on you to misinterpret the girl's interest in you, and finally give you the steps to get together.
Key words: How to upgrade a relationship
Q: Crow Dada has been following your article for a long time. Recently, I chatted with a sister and I am very conversant. I would like to ask you how to upgrade my relationship and ask her out? Seek advice
A: The simplest way to upgrade a relationship is to change the nickname, such as calling her Little Girl or Little Cute. In the invitation section, you need to first make a vague invitation, which means an invitation that is uncertain about the specific time. For example, "Shall we watch a movie together some other day?" After receiving a positive response from the girl, you can make an invitation at a specific time next time.
4 keywords; I don't know what to do
Q: Raven Dada, one of the sisters I was flirting with had social phobia. She almost flirted with on WeChat and enjoyed the flirting, but one day she suddenly ignored me. Later, I learned that it was developing too fast. At this time, I knew I couldn't go any further and needed to change back to the friend stage and start over. However, my mind was very confused, and I was afraid that she would ignore me again, so I bombarded with information, I can see that the number of words she answers me has decreased. Should I chill her for a few days and then start over again? "I also joked with her, and it took me a long time to respond with this kind of bombardment: Hey, did you fall into the toilet?"? Need help? Bombings such as calling the police without speaking. What should I do?
A: First of all, you should temporarily stop promoting your relationship with girls and maintain a pleasant atmosphere of chatting. In addition, girls' previous performance was mostly due to a lack of security. So you need to increase the sense of security, that is, trust, between you in the next chat. The specific method is to share your information with each other, including personal life information, family information, love information, and so on.