I have had several sexual experiences, but it hurts! Therefore, refusing sex (21 years old, office worker) makes sex a part of themselves and caresses themselves in front of the mirror. As my friend XX said, I first tasted forbidden fruits at the age of 17, and there was no pain at the age of 25. That's because during this period of time, when the other person inserted it, I endured it until he completely inserted it before feeling the pain. At first, everyone was in great pain. Expert advice: "When inserting, many people will tighten the vaginal opening, leading to vaginal spasms. This is because it is difficult to overcome the psychological factors that can cause pain during insertion. Therefore, it is necessary to learn techniques to relax the vagina. Use a mirror to carefully observe this privacy, gently massage, and it will be okay if there is no pain. Then, put your finger in and pull inside.
Spend six months to a year getting used to your body. My first experience with my boyfriend was that he didn't have the energy... is that my reason? (20 years old, office worker) "I have also had the experience of being too nervous and not holding on. At first, it didn't go smoothly, and finally it ended nervously and excitedly. Psychological factors are directly related to male organs. If you are worried about not getting an erection, you really won't get one, and next time you will feel uneasy, which can lead to a vicious cycle. Women should not pour cold water and say that they are not good (27 years old, teacher) Expert advice: shy men have no time for about six months. I love him, so it's okay not to insert, but one day he did it. Before his nervousness can be relieved, more skin relationships must be given to him. Are women who masturbate fools? (25 year old office worker) Not all fools, I also enjoy masturbation, which fascinates women, so I think I can do better.
Women like to close their eyes and run freely with their thoughts. I like people who masturbate and have rich imagination. Such people are absolutely happy when having sex. A woman with a good mind is not guilty of sex. (28 years old, civil servant) Expert advice: Women who believe that masturbation is a sin have been rooted in the concept since childhood, but actually do not feel guilty. American feminism advocates looking at one's own organs in the mirror and caressing oneself. Sexual organs and sex cannot follow the pleasure of men. The degree of pleasure depends on the other party, which is a behavior that depends on their level of pleasure. The most important thing is to select objects. If men don't understand accommodation, sex will become boring. Experts say there is a way to distinguish whether a man is smart or not during sexual intercourse. Just ask the man for a massage to know. If he feels like he is working hard, it means he doesn't know the techniques of sex. Of course, good skills are not the most important thing. If it's someone you really like, even if it's just a hug, it feels great. Only with true love can pleasure be enhanced!
Don't forget that satisfaction in the heart is also important! Don't like him when you don't want to do it. When it comes to sex, women have always lived in such conflicts. He once made such a request, and I just regarded him as a friend, thinking it wasn't as good as this. As a result, he wasn't very happy and we broke up, only to find out that we didn't really like him. (26 years old) Although developing steadily with him, there is no point in having strong sexual intercourse, so there is no need to do so. Additionally, if every sexual activity follows the male order, women will always tire of it. Women must clearly express their dislike of things. In that way, men will know how to please women and become more intoxicated. If women are completely patient, they will feel like victims, and such sexual activity is not enjoyable. After understanding each other, it is best to accept their partner's steps. When having sex with the correct contraceptive knowledge, do not ask if you are wearing a condom, which can lead to a terrifying ending. (23 years old) So angry, ignoring reality, if contraception fails, the scene will be even more terrifying.
The doctor said that although he has confidence in extracorporeal ejaculation, the gap is large, so the safest method is to wear a condom. To avoid finding condoms at critical moments, it is recommended to place them in a container for easy use. Long term non use of safety jackets can worsen their quality. In addition to annual replacement, there are also contraceptive methods such as uterine caps, uterine rings, and birth control pills. Before use, a gynecologist can be consulted. To enjoy sex with peace of mind, normal contraceptive knowledge is essential. Making oneself happy and letting the other party see one's masturbation is really embarrassing (23 years old). Women who have this idea are taught from a young age that playing with their genitals is taboo and evil. To change this mindset, it is important to first exclude the concept that sex is a crime. Pursuing your own pleasure is not a sin. If you can honestly accept this pleasure, I believe you will enter an unknown world. Once I used an electric massage stick, and I regretted not knowing why it was so convenient earlier. (26 years old) Gently tie your hand, cover your eyes, concentrate on feeling, and it will quickly become taller. (27 years old. Teacher) Love your body, pursue the pleasure you want, and women's lives will be more enriched.