The word "lift but not firm" is often regarded as a synonym for impotence, but it is not true in real life. This word can only indicate the insufficient congestion of the cavernous body of the penis. As for the amount of congestion, it cannot be accurately reflected, so we should make corresponding treatment according to different situations.
Many young people say that they suffer from impotence, but this is not the case. Some people have no girlfriend or experience of sexual life. It is only found that the hardness of the penis erection is lower than before. In the past, when the penis is erect on sexual impulse, the glans and penis body are congested. However, it is different now. The glans seems not to be congested. I feel very scared and feel impotent. In fact, this is not an impotence, but a reflection of normal sexual physiology. Like a farmer who often does farm work, his hands will have thick calluses, which is the result of long-term labor and also the result of self-protection, which can prevent the hands from being scratched by labor. On the contrary, a person who does not work often will have blisters on his hands when he does farm work occasionally. The reason is the same. With the growth of age, the sensitivity of the glans decreases due to frequent friction with underwear after exposure. However, if there is strong and persistent sexual stimulation, the glans will also be congested and swollen. So all this is not morbid. Don't worry too much. Such "lifting without firmness" is manifested in the poor congestion of the glans, which is a normal physiological reaction.
Some middle-aged people reported their recent impotence, saying that they "hand in the gun as soon as they go to battle", because their wives seldom had sex from pregnancy to the process of raising children. After the sexual intercourse returns to normal, it is found that the penis erection is not firm, but the penis can still be inserted into the vagina. This situation is caused by insufficient penis congestion, which generally reaches 60-70%. If you are skilled in sexual skills, you can insert the penis into the vagina. This situation is more common among middle-aged men. It is caused by the lack of freshness in sexual life, not a morbid reaction. It is more accurate to classify it as a psychological factor. Some people arrange their sex life on weekends, and their body positions rarely change. They continue to lack innovation. Naturally, they take it for granted. This is the root cause of erectile failure. For this situation, it is best to follow the mood and desire, not limited by time and place, and often change positions to increase freshness, which will improve the erection hardness of the penis and improve the quality of sexual life.