Post Date September, 24 2023
Men's sexual response is like a light bulb, turning on a switch immediately turns hot, while women's response is like iron. You just turn on the switch and it's not enough, you have to wait and see her slowly turn hot. "This is a classic language by Dr. Kurt, a psychologist and sex therapist in Michigan, USA, who evaluates the differences in sexual reactions between men and women. It is to compensate for this difference that sexologists have proposed the concept of foreplay. However, a recent survey in the UK showed that eight out of 17 to 70 year old men in the country do not know what foreplay is. Many people think that foreplay is mutual touching and passionate kissing after going to bed. Others think that foreplay is not important and dispensable, even the famous American sexology masters Masters and Johnson have this view.
However, in the eyes of Dr. Mackay, a PhD in sexuality at the University of Hong Kong, understanding foreplay as simply caressing and kissing on the bed is one-sided. He cites the viewpoint from the American Sexual Bible: "Non sexual games" refer to various behaviors that can alleviate sexual stress, which is clearly more relaxed than the concept of foreplay for modern people due to decreased quality of life and insufficient sexual passion. It would be best to take a whole day. Statistics show that the average length of foreplay is 17 minutes, but that's for bed movements, "Dr. Mai said. Before sexual intercourse, animals often spend minutes, hours, or even days biting, scratching, smelling, pressing, or nose touching their partners to make intimate movements.
Since the purpose of foreplay is to make your partner fantasize about sex, the game begins before you take off your clothes, "Dr. Mai said. If a man is willing to spend an entire afternoon with his partner, joking together, eating together, hugging and hugging, then this is considered foreplay by women. But most men are not aware of this, they just want to know if there are any skills in foreplay after going to bed. Of course, there are skills, that is, being willing to spend an afternoon taking a walk with her, spending the whole day with her, and doing something considerate and warm. "Entering the middle-aged and elderly stage, people's physiological functions and psychological state will undergo significant changes, and for them, foreplay time needs to be longer. A little more sweet words, perfume and caresses will help stimulate feelings.
Of course, if you are an ED (erectile dysfunction) patient, you must rely on medication to help with sexual activity, and foreplay is different. The attending physician of the Department of Sexual Medicine of Yuquan Hospital of Tsinghua University pointed out that in clinical practice, such people often think that they can have sex directly after taking drugs. In fact, without foreplay, the drug effect cannot be exerted at all. At this point, it is necessary to have more communication with your partner and generate excitement mentally in order to truly have a beautiful sexual life. Dr. Yang's suggestion is that a lingering kiss, gentle caress, and visual stimulation can easily create passion. And the longer the time, the more fully the efficacy is exerted. At present, the effective time of these drugs sold on the market ranges from four to forty hours, so it is very important to grasp the foreplay time well. Dr. Mai particularly reminds men that female dominated sex often leads to more passion and pleasure. Therefore, it is best for women to decide when to start sexual activity after foreplay, and the speed should also be controlled by women, which will result in better results.
