Extramarital love: An extramarital love destroys two families, but also destroys oneself

Extramarital love: An extramarital love destroys two families, but also destroys oneself

Introduction: Women should consider more issues when they are troubled by extramarital affairs, such as what to do with their children in the future, whether they can defuse the hostility of the other party's family, whether they can tolerate the other party's caring for their original children... These seemingly insignificant small issues have enormous energy to break a marriage again.

Once a happy family

Previously, relatives and friends around Mei Zi envied that Mei Zi had a good husband, A Tao (a pseudonym of the department), who took care of Mei Zi meticulously while working in the government. Mei Zi doesn't like cooking, and Tao rushes home to cook every day as soon as he gets off work. By the time Mei Zi came home, A Tao had already brought the food to the table. After more than 10 years of marriage, Mei Zi has cooked almost a handful of times, maintaining her hands white and smooth, almost comparable to the hands of a mannequin. 　

When they first got married, their income was low, and after having a son, their finances became even more tense. In order to make a better life for his wife and children, A Tao has been using his spare time to work part-time to supplement his expenses.

Although his life is not rich, Tao himself can't even afford to buy a pair of socks for 5 yuan, but he doesn't frown when he buys his wife a dress for more than 1000 yuan.

On the way to work, whenever he sees anything delicious, Tao will buy some for his wife and children. Watching them eat happily, Tao felt very satisfied. "With such a beautiful wife and smart son, it's worth the pain of being tired.".

Lover's wife knocks on the door

The beauty in Tao's eyes was shattered on a weekend afternoon in 2002. At that time, a middle-aged woman with three men burst into the house, cursing Mei Zi for being "shameless" and starting to punch and kick. A Tao hurriedly stepped forward to dissuade Mei Zi, who took the opportunity to sneak into the bedroom. The middle-aged woman slapped a stack of photos onto the coffee table.

The photos are all images of his wife and a middle-aged man getting intimate. A Tao was stunned at the moment, while the middle-aged woman reluctantly threatened to give plum some color to see.

Afraid of hurting his wife, Tao knelt down in a hurry and said, "Elder sister, I don't know anything about this matter. Please give me face and let me ask you clearly before I give you an answer.". Under the bitter plea of A Tao, the middle-aged woman left with the others.

Mei Zi opened the door of the room, and before Tao could speak, he knelt down in front of him and said, "I'm sorry for you, let's get a divorce.". After the doubt in his heart was confirmed in his wife's mouth, Tao sat motionless on the sofa all night, "Why am I so good to her, and all I get is her betrayal?"

An office romance cannot be accepted

When Mei Zi's extramarital affair was discovered, it had been going on for three years. Mei Zi couldn't explain exactly how this extramarital affair started. It seemed like everything was going naturally.

Because she doesn't have to do housework, Mei always stays up late at the office before leaving; Her boss was unwilling to go home because of a marital feud and stayed at the office.

After work, Mei Zi passed his boss's office and saw him sighing alone. It turned out that the boss had just had a fight with his wife the day before, when he saw plum, he suffered greatly. Mei Zi felt a pang of sadness in his heart, "Such a talented person, but so pitiful.".

With compassion, Mei Zi began to take the initiative to care for his boss, giving him advice to resolve family disputes, serving as a counselor when he was buying clothes, and taking care of his sick mother on his behalf

About six months later, on Mei Zi's birthday, her supervisor unexpectedly gave her a gold necklace. Then, the two had a relationship in the office.

After the event, Mei Zi often compared her boss with her husband, feeling that her boss was "talented and capable of living," while her husband was "really bored.".

Half a year later, I got married again

In early 2003, Mei Zi and A Tao divorced. A few months later, the boss also filed for a divorce, and then quickly married Meizi.

After less than two months of marriage, Mei Zi found that life was not as good as she imagined. "My husband doesn't do any housework. Plum is sweating in the kitchen after work, but he looks like he's in the office, reading newspapers with a teacup in his hand.".

After four months of marriage, Meizi suddenly realized that her husband was still in contact with his former wife. Moreover, upon receiving a phone call from his son when he is sick, he will immediately rush out of the house and even hesitate to change his shoes.

Mei Zi felt even more aggrieved when she thought that her husband was also very strict in terms of money and never gave her a penny after marriage. As a result, within six months, Mei Zi divorced again.

After the divorce, Meizi found Ah Tao in the name of looking after the children and knelt down again, hoping that her ex husband would forgive her. After his divorce, A Tao lost confidence in women.

Looking at his tearful wife, Tao felt only heartache. "I will never forget the joy my wife felt when she knew I agreed to divorce."

Postscript:

For some women, entering an extramarital relationship seems to be uncontrollable. However, the editor believes that extramarital love is not inevitable. Mei Zi's sympathy for her boss is a dangerous signal. If she can brake in time at this time and does not have further contact with her boss, there will be no subsequent love affair. Mei Zi unconsciously played the role of his wife while helping his boss buy clothes and take care of his sick mother. These actions also triggered a favorable impression on Mei Zi from his boss, and further pushed the extramarital affair forward. The boss sent plum a birthday gift, which undoubtedly pushed their relationship to a cliff.