Post Date April, 15 2023
The reform and opening up has brought about economic recovery, while people's emotional lives have also become more open. The urban nightlife is filled with a sense of ambiguity, but not everyone can afford to play with ambiguity. Men set ambiguity as a trap, and women who pretend to be smart are likely to self-destruct.
1. Malignant ambiguity, you can't afford to hurt
Warm ignorance can be divided into two types: benign and malignant. Benign ambiguity points to love, but whether it can develop into love later depends on the timing, location, and harmony of people. There is also a malignant ambiguity, which is to be ambiguous for the sake of ambiguity. In other words, it's like having someone to play with, like a banquet where you happily go and see a large table full of delicious food, just about to pounce on it and have a big meal, but are warned that you can only see, smell, and not eat. That taste is so annoying. If I had told you in advance, would you still go
What's scary is that no one will ever tell you in advance. The person who likes to play ambiguous (usually a man) - starts with a look of "liking you" and throws autumn spinach at you, saying something meaningful to you. Accidentally, either your shoulder or your finger touches you, causing you to panic and wonder every day, 'Did he fall in love with me? Did I fall in love with him?'
As you think and guess, your brain hurts. As you fall into a better state under his temptation, the more you look at the person, the more moved you become. Your mind is being held by him, soft and itchy, and you can't help but play this game with a passion of 120000. It's just beautiful, suddenly realizing that everything has come to an abrupt end. You're like a person burying your head in a sprint, realizing that the finish line is not a red line, but a void
Silly enough, it's not like continuing to run, it's not like stopping suddenly. Or, everything is still going on, playing and going is still in place, and you don't know whether to stop or continue moving forward - unlucky for you, encountering this guy wasn't because of love, just to find someone to play with. I know a man who spreads the seeds of ambiguity every time he goes to a new place. His life motto is: "Maintain an ambiguous relationship with every woman I know
Malignant ambiguity is the great enemy of love. You think it's love, it's not, and it will never be. Many people mistakenly believe that love is just that, knowing it's hopeless, they still indulge themselves in it and waste their good time in vain.
Men play with ambiguity for their own purposes. Women should not naively think that only they are playing with this ambiguity, but forget that the mantis is catching cicadas and the yellow sparrow is behind them. The man who plays with ambiguity is this yellow sparrow, hiding behind you and waiting for an opportunity to take what he wants from you. Everything else is negotiable. Besides being nauseous and ambiguous, the following secret women cannot help but know.
2. 99% of men who play ambiguous games won't just play with one person
Since they have the intention to play this game, they will play it more thoroughly. Compared to having only one partner, men prefer to hover between several women and enjoy the pleasure of being surrounded by flowers. The remaining 1% are heterosexual individuals who play with ambiguous men, and the chances of encountering them are too low to be considered.
3. Men play with ambiguity, the key is to play without ambiguity
Play is fun, ambiguity is hell. That's right, in their eyes, this ambiguity is only for fun after all. Because it's for fun, it's impossible to be serious, and it's impossible to promise or be honest with you. If you choose to be serious, then it's natural to see who wins and who loses in the end. Women who want true emotions, once they are with them, 99% get hurt.
4. Men who play ambiguous always think they are right
Most men who play with ambiguity think they are right and always feel that they can catch all the women around them in one go. For such men, women should be extremely careful. Getting into this man's trap is not easy to get out of. For such men, women loudly tell them, no.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
